Is Your Wife A Nag Or Are You A Genius! Gold The Movie

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What… What are you doing? What’s wrong with you. You eat so much fish but still no brains. [Monobina]

What should I do, then? [Tapan]

Take your shoes off first! Otherwise you’ll keep slipping. [Monobina]

(he then took off his shoes and the suggestion she makes to him works like a charm and so he was able to push the wheel out of the ditch, and he happily responds)

My wife is a beauty with brains! [Tapan]

(She replies to his admiration of her advice)

Now hurry up. [Monobina]

(He climbs back onto the wagon and sits back beside his wife as she brushes the mud off his head with love. Later they arrive at their destination and he and his wife are so in love as they cannot resist each other and so they make passionate love.)

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In the dialogue above Tapan and his wife Monobina are riding in a wagon and the other wagon following behind is carrying their belongings but one of the wheel’s gets stuck in a ditch so Tapan jumps off his wagon and immediately try’s pushing the wheel out of the ditch but his feet are slipping and he is failing miserably to get the wheel out of the ditch.

The movie Gold with Akshay Kumar is a historical sports drama movie based on an Indian national hockey team in the 1940’s.

What I liked the most about this movie is watching the dynamics of the marriage relationship between Tapan and his wife Monobina. I observed that his wife was very bright and he did a lot of things very stupidly. I liked that although she felt she always had to fuss with him quite often due to the fact that he handled his life very poorly and did not use his brain, there was not a time when he became so angry and frustrated with her for pointing things out to him. It seemed he had the right attitude as he knew she had his best interest at heart and so he never let insecurity rule him and spoil their relationship. It seemed nor did he allow anger to control his thoughts to the point that he directed anger at his wife. Deep down inside he loved her and he knew she loved him. I liked that he was very secure in himself that he never let himself be or feel insecure when it came to the things his wife had to say to him a lot of the times throughout their relationship. It was so refreshing to see this relationship.

There are too many marriage relationships that suffer unnecessarily due to this same very issue. A lot of the time the husband acts like a bird brain and the wife is smarter when it comes to certain things and so instead of the husband being appreciative instead he winds up harboring secret or obvious jealousy and hatred for his smart wife instead of appreciating her as he should. Just the fact that he has her there in his life to help him with his short comings is something a lot of men fail to realize and so this is how a lot of marriages happiness is tossed out the window and ruined because the husband has a bad male ego, low self esteem and a bad attitude. A man with these attributes would rather say his wife has a big mouth and call her a nag and what not rather then appreciate her big mouth, big behind, smart brain and all. So I very much liked this scene so much when they were traveling as one of the wagon’s holding their belongings got stuck in a ditch in the mud and his wife assists him with getting it out of the mud filled ditch so they could proceed forward.

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In the movie you can see how Tapan responded by saying…. My wife is a beauty with brains!

Amazing response. And he got her love and passion because of it. He hardly ever responded in a negative way to his wife’s suggestions/nagging. It’s all in how you interpret and perceive things and in what light you choose to see a person as important as your life partner. He never said stupid things like “shut up!” nor did he respond by saying “I’m the man in the relationship and so you do not need to tell me what to do, how to think or to breathe.” Only idiots of the worse kind respond in that way. I tell you I think this is a movie that would benefit “ALL MALES” of all ages around the world. And they need to not just watch this movie but take serious notes!!! And internalize it.

In this movie Tapan shows how a man should and could behave in his dealings with his wife who may seem like a nag to him. Nine times out of ten when a man says his wife is a nag he is a bird brain to the tenth degree! LOL! Come on men handle yourselves appropriately by keeping a check on the ego, emotions, thought process and attitude. Just think about it… Do you want to always be right or do you want the right kind of loving relationship with your spouse? Think about it! Your situation may not be about getting a wheel out of the mud but whatever it is think about how you are reacting and responding to the person you claim to love.

This is an amazing example of a movie. Amazing!

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~Gold Cast~

~Monobina Das~ (Tapan’s wife) Mouni Roy

~Tapan Das~ Askshay Kumar

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The Beginning Stages of Love: Balika Vadu

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i’m gonna do all the things for you a girl wants a man to do, oh baby

(oh, baby)

i’ll sacrifice for you, i’ll even do wrong for you, oh baby

(oh, baby)

~Diana Ross & The Supremes & The Temptations~

I’m Gonna Make You Love Me”

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It’s seems their love is new and when love is new between couples everything is right in the world or so they say.  Jagya and Anandi are so in love and to witness their relationship happening these days is so adorable.

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And every night, every day

i’m gonna say…

i’m gonna get you,

i’m gonna get you. Look out, ‘cause i’m gonna get you.

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Well I tell you everyone can see how Jagya is being so impatient and looks like he just can’t wait to spend some time alone with his wife Anandi. He thinks about her day and night, and night and day…. and so he is always looking for opportunites to sneak away with her and well it just seems all so very sweet. Every day he’s doing something to set them up to be together alone. I loved the scene that time when they were in the fields alone or so they thought because someone spotted them together and told Jagya’s grandma and the woman raised a lot of hell because it was unbecoming of a young girl to be seen in public so close beside her husband. Actually it is tradition that all girls, women, wives are supposed to be seen walking ten feet behind their husbands whenever they are in public.

Anyway, it seems they have yet to consummate their marriage and Anandi is so innocent in her thought process that it seems so foreign to Jagya. He can’t seem to get it, he wonders why is it that all she cares about is being an amazing daughter in law to her in laws. She waits on Jagdish’s granny night and day. At night she massages granny’s legs till she falls asleep and first thing in the morning she makes granny some tea and breakfast when she rises. Anandi is always so busy cooking meals for each member of the family and cleaning house. And so you’d think she’d be more interested in what Jagya wants even just a tiny bit. I think the lack of interest is because of her innocence. She hasn’t got a clue as to what its like to be with her husband in a special way and so she therefore does not know what it is she’s missing.

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and with each beat of my heart

for every day we are apart

i’ll hunger for you….

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So as the story line proceeds on, I am waiting on the day when she gets to find out how amazing it can be when you are loved by your husband in more ways then one, if you know what I mean. I am waiting on the next phase of their marriage. But in the meantime it’s so humorous to watch Jagya in action as he keeps on plotting and keeps on trying to get closer and closer to his wife, actually I think it’s so, so cute and adorable. LOL! It reminds me so much of my own relationship with my husband when we first were married.

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Every minute, every hour,

I’m gonna shower you with love and affection.

Look out, it’s comin’ in your direction.

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~Balika Vadu Cast~

~Anandi Khahaan Singh~Pratyusha Banerjee

~Dr. Jagdish Bhairon Singh/Jagya/Jagat~Shashank Vyas

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Diana Ross & The Supremes & The Temptations

I’m Gonna Make You Love Me

Lyrics

whew oooh ooh ohh

i’m gonna do all the things for you a girl wants a man to do, oh baby

(oh, baby)

i’ll sacrifice for you, i’ll even do wrong for you, oh baby

(oh, baby)

Every minute, every hour, I’m gonna shower you with love and affection. Look out, it’s comin’ in your direction.

And I’m, I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will, yes I will.

And I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will, yes I will.

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Looky here. My love is strong you see I know you’ll never get tired of me. Oh, baby (oh, baby)…

And i’m gonna use every trick in the book, i’ll try my best to get you hooked. Hey, baby (hey, baby)…

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And every night, every day

i’m gonna say… i’m gonna get you,

i’m gonna get you. Look out, ‘cause i’m gonna get you.

I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will, yes I will.

And I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will. You know I will.

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Every breath I take

and each and every step I make

brings me closer baby, brings me closer to you

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and with each beat of my heart

for every day we are apart

i’ll hunger for every wish

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oooh every night and every day

I gonna get you, i’m gonna get you, I’m gonna get you

look out, cause i’m gonna get you

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i’m gonna make,

i’m gonna make you love me

ooooh, oooh

yes I will, yes I will

i’m gonna make,

i’m gonna make you love me

ooooh, oooh

yes I will, yes I will

i’m gonna make,

i’m gonna make you love me

ooooh, oooh

yes I will, yes I will

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Mind Games…~How To Help Your Man Stay If He Really Want’s To~

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~Tyrone Davis~

Can I Change My Mind”

Well at some point the man even admitted that he tried playing this game of leaving her many times before. So when it didn’t work this time he wound up being the one crying instead of her. She didn’t beg him to stay at any point anymore. LOL! Ooh I have fallen in love with this love story as it’s being sung and the music is so amazing as it makes you want to just sing along and sway your hips from side to side, lovin every word.

I especially love this song “Can I Change My Mind” and the reason I do is because it seems extra sweet because it has in it a lesson well taught that some women can learn from.

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Well anyway, I tell you I just love me some Tyrone Davis Music. So when I heard this song for the very first time I really didn’t get it nor did I break it apart to try to understand what is going on. I was just singing it just because of the melody and I liked the voice of the singer. But when I really listened to the lyrics, the words started to stand out and they were powerful!

I tell you I like how this woman dealt with her man once and for all. I guess she was tired of his threats to leave her. The part I love best is the first few lyrics.

awww…. she didn’t bat an eye

as I packed my bags to leave

I thought she would start to cry

I sit around my room and weep

I guess that’s why I always loved listening to country western music because of the dramatic love stories that are being sung. But I have to say this… Tyrone Davis might have out done some of those old country western songs with this one. LOL! And so here he sings…

but people’s let me tell y’all

oh I never reached the door

She got him where she wanted him. He wishes he never attempted to leave home. I think if and when he gets her back he won’t play that silly game any more. So yeah I say it was CHECKMATE!

as I took those steps, towards that open door

knowing all the time, oh lord I just didn’t wanna go

but she didn’t give me no sign

nothing that would make me change my mind

I would like to, start all over again

and then he sings….

but ooh the wind is high out tonight

I keep looking back but my baby’s not in sight

I would like to, start all over again

So tell me anybody ever threaten to leave you? And how did you deal with it?

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~Tyrone Davis~

Can I Change My Mind”

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~Tyrone Davis~

Can I Change My Mind”

Lyrics…..

awww…. she didn’t bat an eye

as I packed my bags to leave

I thought she would start to cry

I sit around my room and weep

but y’all the girl she fooled me this time

she acted like I was the last thing on her mind

I would like to start all over again

baby can I change my mind

I just wanna change my mind

baby let me change my mind

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as I took those steps, towards that open door

knowing all the time, oh lord I just didn’t wanna go

but she didn’t give me no sign

nothing that would make me change my mind

I would like to, start all over again

baby can I change my mind

please please please baby

I just wanna change my mind

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oh I played my games many times before

but people’s let me tell y’all

oh I never reached the door

but ooh the wind is high out tonight

I keep looking back but my baby’s not in sight

I would like to, start all over again

baby can I change my mind

baby let me change my mind

I’m so sorry

baby I love you

baby I need you

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Becoming One: Balika Vadu

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The feeling of being one….

makes a boy a man

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a girl a woman

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~Balika Vadu~

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~Cast~

~Anandi Khahaan Singh~Pratyusha Banerjee

~Dr. Jagdish Bhairon Singh/Jagya/Jagat~Shashank Vyas

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Ishaan Khanna’s Got Staying Power! Silsila Badalte Rishton Ka

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~Barry White ~

Staying Power”

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Mauli did it! The one she wants to build a life with is Ishaan Khanna. She finally chose Ishaan over her cheating ex husband Kunal Malhotra. And of course I was jumping up and down for joy and so happy for them both but especially happy for Ishaan. I tell you he was so unbelievably wonderful and any woman with good sense and a loving heart would not have let that type of good man slip through her fingers.

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So unlike Kunal who with a cold hardheartedness left Mauli and decided to run off with her best friend, she woke up and knew she wanted and needed the type of man that knows how to stick around. Amazing! A man that has staying power is one in a million. So in the end Mauli made a great choice. She made the better choice. I knew Mauli wasn’t crazy enough to go back to being with Kunal no matter how much his grandmother and all of Kunal’s family wanted things to go back in place as it once was before, even no matter how much Mauli thought she still loved him deep in her heart. That old relationship with Kunal was finally ended, over and dead. Mauli finally found the courage to move on in her life. I tell you there aren’t many men like Ishaan. He is a jewel indeed. A treasure that is something to be cherished.

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Anyway, when Kunal finally got his memory back he knew he messed up big time because he knew Mauli was a good woman. He chased after his lust and thought nothing about Mauli and went head over heels crazy over her best friend instead which was not right at all. He should have had some kind of self control and realized what he had at home already was all he needed at the time. But no! Mauli was not enough for him.

So while going through the period of memory loss Kunal got caught up in a web of drama when he thought that Mauli was the one cheating on him when she was only staying with him to help bring him back to the future. Its so funny how things happen because he went through exactly the same intense hurt and pain he had put Mauli through. He hated Ishaan and was passionate in trying to keep Mauli to himself and not let her get away from him. It’s the same exact thing Mauli tried to do. She tried her best to save her marriage with Kunal and there he was doing the same thing with Mauli too. I tell you karma is the real deal!

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So with Mauli’s choice came the end of that segment of the show and so I am very disappointed because I was hoping to get the chance to see Ishaan and Mauli’s full blown love story. Oh boy it would have been so nice to witness that man loving on Mauli as I know he did already. I wanted to see Ishaan in all of his happiness in love when he finally got Mauli’s love in return. I tell you he was so good in waiting like he did for her to figure it all out. I tell you it would have been an amazing part two to see them living together and making a new life together. But now the story moves on with Mauli and Kunal’s girls becoming young women and getting involved in their own relationships themselves as Kunal’s mother is around helping to guide their lives.

So I bid farewell and to the end of their love chapter…… Mauli and Ishaan’s amazing love.

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~Cast~

Aditi Sharma~ Dr. Mauli Khanna (Ishaan’s Wife, Kunal’s ex wife, Mishti’s mom)

Kinsuk Mahajan~ Ishaan Khanna (Mauli’s New Husband and Mishti’s Popsie)

Shakti Arora~ Kunal Malhotra (Mauli’s ex husband & Mishti & Pari’s father)

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DREAM MAN: Ishaan Khanna of Silsila Badalte Rishton Ka

But what I like about you is your tenderness….

You have a pleasin’ personality

and that’s an ever lovin’ rare quality…

~Temptations~

~Beauty’s Only Skin Deep~

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Temptations- Beauty Is Only Skin Deep (1966)

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I am so loving Ishaan Khanna these days. He is one gorgeous hunk that’s so loving and those bedroom dreamy eyes do not help matters much. His love he has for Mauli is so amazing. From the way he watches and looks after her is any girls dream man. There are so many moments he could have and should have gotten upset and overreacted to the circumstances of dealing with Mauli staying with Kunal. Just the one about her living and sleeping in the same room with Kunal is enough to cause folks to go postal. Well he’s sweetly minding the children and going on outings with the family and taking slights so very well.

After all that Mauli has been through with Kunal in the past, she was miserable and quite sad all the time and seemed confused and could not move on to save her life. So along came Ishaan… what a man… he is quite the antidote for her to heal and be whole again.

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So in love, sad as can be

cause a pretty face got the best of me

Suddenly, you came into my life

and gave it meaning and pure delight

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I find him an unbelievable catch. It’s amazing because instead of responding to things in a cantankerous or snippy way as most people would do, the way Ishaan is handling himself and being so patient, loving and kind it’s more of a turn on for Mauli than anything else. Imagine a man who shows and loves you with such amazing qualities of patience, loving kindness and tenderness combined with a pleasing personality. Wow! It’s truly so amazing.

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~Cast~

Aditi Sharma~ Dr. Mauli Malhotra (Kunal’s ex wife, Ishaan’s fiance, Mishti’s mom)

Shakti Arora~ Kunal Malhotra (Mauli’s ex husband & Mishti & Pari’s father)

Kinsuk Mahajan~ Ishaan Khanna (Mauli’s Fiance and Mishti’s Popsie)

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Temptations- Beauty Is Only Skin Deep (1966)

Lyrics

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So in love, sad as can be

‘cause a pretty face got the best of me

Suddenly, you came into my life

and gave it meaning and pure delight

Now, good looks, I’ve learned to do without

‘Cause now I know that

(beauty’s only skin deep, yeah, yeah)

I know that

(beauty’s only skin deep, oh yeah) yes indeed

Now you speak your words warm and sincere

And let’s me know that your love is near

A pretty face you may not possess

But what I like about you is your tenderness

A pretty face maybe some guys taste

But I’ll take lovin’ in it’s place

‘Cause I know that

(beauty’s only skin deep, yeah, yeah)

And you know that

(beauty’s only skin deep, oh yeah) oh baby, oh yeah

(oh yeah, oh yeah)

Ooo baby

(beauty’s only skin deep, oh yeah)

My friends ask what do I see in you

but it goes deeper than the eye can view

You have a pleasin’ personality

and that’s an ever lovin’ rare quality

Now show me a girl, a girl that’s fine

And I’ll choose the one with true lovin’ every time

I know that

(beauty’s only skin deep, yeah, yeah)

And I believe that

(beauty’s only skin deep, oh yeah)

So if you’re lookin’ for a lover (oh yeah)

Don’t judge a book by it’s cover (oh yeah)

She may be fine on the outside (oh yeah)

But so untrue on the inside (oh yeah)

Ooo

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My Great Grandma Was A Prepper (Re-Post) & Homesteading Ideas To Love And Try

I chose today to re-post “My Great Grandma Was A Prepper” because it could not have come at a better time then this. My great grand parents built an amazing homestead and so when the great depression (which lasted for 10 years) came it was all their hard work that caused our family to survive. I am hoping with this post you may find an idea you might like to take up. There are so many homesteading ideas and things to choose from such as learning to can food, food preservation, alternative ways to wash clothes and wash clothes by hand, build a camp fire, start a fire with a flint, gardening and composting, make chicken feed, make dog food, knit or crochet a scarf or sweater, cook on a cast iron stove, make yogurt or butter, natural homemade remedies, making poultices, food storage ideas, process wool, spin yarn, weave on a loom, dehydrate, cook over a fire, make candles, fishing and hunting, filter water, make bread, raise chickens, make soap, team work, forage, learn how to sew on a sewing machine, learn how to use a weapon, learn how to use a compass, pickling, cooking, quilting, beekeeping, blacksmiths, up-cycling, marksmanship, ham radio, exercising, build a root cellar, hand made clothes, cut wood, make pemmican, hydroponics, farming, can rotation system, apartment homesteading, curing meat, fermentation, brewing AND SO MUCH MORE HOMESTEADING IDEAS.

My Great Grandma Was A Prepper

Posted on January 21, 2013

During the depression era, Great Grandma was able to keep her family from going hungry and homeless, because she was prepared. Great Grandpa built their first home; it was a small three bedroom cabin. There was also a kitchen and a family room.

My mother told me that Great Grandpa had built a smoke house in the back yard behind the house, where they smoked the majority of their meats like ham and turkey. They maintained a garden in which they grew all kinds of vegetables, beans and flowers. They had fruit and nut trees spread around the land. Great Grandma canned a lot of food from her garden so there was and over abundance of food. They made practically everything they needed for themselves. They had lots of chickens, hogs and cows. This was very common among people back then to can and store food and make or build every little thing they needed.

There was no such thing as waste; they reused everything until it wore completely out. They fed the dogs and cats from the food scraps from the table, there was no such thing as canned dog or cat food for them.

There was no such thing as being in debt nor did they put money in banks, they feared banks. Great Grandma’s bank was under her mattress or jars and cans in the kitchen cabinets. She also had a treadle sewing machine; she made most of their clothing. They had wood stoves and a fireplace to keep warm.

My mom said Great Grandpa had died before the depression hit. It wasn’t too far into the depression that my Grandma realized they weren’t going to survive on their own so my mom said her mother decided to move the family back home to Great Grandma’s to stay while her father had gone in search of employment where ever he could find it and he sent money home when he could. They called Great Grandma big mama back then. She had so much wisdom, strength and common sense.

Thank goodness Great Grandma was prepared and was the one that caused our family to survive and not starve. She had plenty of everything and not only fed her family she helped a few other families survive too. They basically bartered for things they did not have. Great Grandma took good care of things so the family could survive the depression without going hungry. I am so amazed at some of the survival stories my mother told me about back then.

So I say Great Grandma was a prepper before there was a thing called prepping. It was called having mother wit and being wise my mother said.

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By The Way…. Is There Someone You Need To Forgive? Silsila Badalte Rishton Ka

Mauli and Kunal are back sharing the same space again because Kunal is suffering from amnesia due to him falling from a cliff after being shot while trying to rescue his daughter Pari from a set of kidnappers. So now Mauli felt the need to volunteer her life over once again to the Malhotra’s in order to help with Kunal’s memory loss. He needs to carefully and cautiously gain his memory back in thinking she is still his wife or else he will be stuck in the past says his doctor. So when Pari walked in on her wedding preparations asking Mauli to help her dad Kunal she didn’t give it a second thought. She hurt Ishaan and his mother Sandhya as Mauli walked out on the mendhi celebrations. Ishaan’s mother Sandhya is disappointed in Mauli and become saddened for her son because she knows he is so in love with Mauli. It’s like there is nothing Ishaan won’t do for her. And well he is a lovable kind of guy. So Sandhya left the house once Ishaan walked back in the house with Mishti and Pari to take care of for the family. Sandhya thinks he is being a fool because she is not so trusting of people. She believes Ishaan is being too kind and helpful and thinks Mauli may fall in love with Kunal again. So she left the house to let Ishaan deal with all of this on his own.

So while Mauli is on this journey to help Kunal gain his memory back and his way back into the future, she is finding it’s not so easy having to compromise herself, giving her all back to Kunal. She’s feeling the pain of drudging up the past. And to top it off she knows she never really stopped loving Kunal. Her heart won’t let her stop. But at the same time she never forgave him for cheating with her best friend. I was very surprise that she managed to move forward a little bit in her relationship with her fiance Ishaan. The Maholtra’s had to practically allow Kunal to instigate getting her thrown out of the Malhotra household to get her to move forward with Ishaan. Before his memory loss he knew he was not interested in getting back with Mauli although Mauli got drunk one night on a dinner date with Kunal and she told him she still loves him. So I think that’s really sad because Ishaan deserves better. His character is amazing as the man is so, so good looking, a restaurant owner and is very understanding, patient and kind with Mauli’s situation to a fault. I think Mauli is taking the man for granted and because the fact that she can’t let go of Kunal. I definitely would not go to sleep on Ishaan because Mauli might fool around and lose him if she doesn’t let Kunal and his family go. She is in too deep with them. When you think about it Kunal had no problem leaving her for her best friend. And that was the ultimate betrayal. I think she should stop worrying about Kunal and move on with Ishaan and do it quickly.

So I don’t think people are so nice to each other in real life. After a while patience, understanding and kindness do run out when doing these things becomes too much of a burden.

So how about you. Is there someone you need to forgive? Someone who wronged you in your past. Can you let them go and move on and not hold to bitterness or even can you fall in love with them again?

I don’t know, I’m just sayin…

~Cast~

Aditi Sharma~ Dr. Mauli Malhotra (Kunal’s ex wife, Ishaan’s fiance, Mishti’s mom)

Shakti Arora~ Kunal Malhotra (Mauli’s ex husband & Mishti & Pari’s father)

Kinsuk Mahajan~ Ishaan Khanna (Mauli’s Fiance and Mishti’s Popsie)

Arravya Sharma~Pari Malhotra (Kunal & Nandini’s Daughter)

Maisha Dixit~Mishti Malhotra (Kunal & Mauli’s Daughter)

Jaya Bhattacharya~Radhika Malhotra (Kunal’s mother)

Neena Cheema~ Yammini Malhotra (Kunal’s grandmother)

Prateeksha Lonkar~ Sandhya Khanna (Ishaan’s mother)

Prachi Thakkar~ Sweety, Malhora family neighbor

Drashti Dhami~ Nandini Malhotra (Kunal’s deceased 2nd wife & Mauli’s ex-best friend)

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Treat People The Way You Want To Be Treated: Mama Used To Say

I love watching YouTube channels and I have my favorites I love to keep up with. But lately I watched one show and a woman on there was talking about how a friend who pretends to be a friend hacked up spit and put it in another so called friends cupcakes she made and how the so called friend watched joyfully as she ate the contaminated muffins. Then previously on another YouTube channel one man showed a video of how this woman cooks her food by chewing up the ingredients in her mouth and spit it out into a bowl instead of cutting or chopping up the ingredients in the right way, then mixing up everything in the bowl to serve that cooked meal to some unsuspecting individual. I have heard some crazy stories like these growing up and it’s very upsetting knowing there are people out here that do these kinds of things.

I tell you that this is totally disgusting. Knowing there are people out here that does these kinds of despicable things is frightening. This is the kind of stuff that make people not trust one another and become paranoid period. You wind up not wanting people cooking for you nor you feeling comfortable cooking for anyone either because then they look at you funny wondering about you. So you just don’t know what’s in people’s minds either way. And then sometimes I think people should not put this kind of stuff on TV or in social media because they are helping to give wicked people even more wicked ideas. So tell me who does these types of things? This is ridiculous.

I am so glad that my mama took the time to raise us up and used to say to us “treat people the way you want to be treated.” And not only did she tell us this she also lived this thing right in front of us. I don’t think my mother could have ever hurt a fly. She was such a soft spoken women and she was very gentle in the way she raised up her children. Now don’t get me wrong she would speak reality to us and caution but not in a way that would leave us tarnished and make us have ill will towards others nor be afraid to live life in the world. She was a very neat and clean woman, healthy and took the time to teach us right from wrong.

I tell you I don’t understand the people in the world today. Some people don’t know how to be nice to each other sometimes if it were to save their own lives. Nor know when they are doing something wrong to another human being. I can tell you this if the shoe was on the other foot and someone treated them with cruelty and disrespect then I bet they would hoop and hola till the roof came down. Some like to dish it out but not like it when the same thing happens to them.

What happened to things like being a true friend to another individual? What ever happened to being kind and being understanding and being a decent human being. Hell everyone is having a hard time in life sometimes. I believe there is no excuse for barbaric behavior.

I don’t watch certain types of shows on TV nor do I read certain types of books. I detest violence in any form. I’m no angel indeed but I can tell you that I have the good sense enough to know how to treat people in the right way. I know how to love and show kindness even when someone is not being so kind to me. Because there is a thing called having an understanding beyond yourself. Sometimes you have to look beyond a persons ways and faults and see their needs. Most people want to be treated with kindness and respect. I don’t think anyone is shouting to the roof “come disrespect me” hell no and if so there has to be something seriously wrong if so. Some people I realize are gluttons for punishment, well that’s not me. If I don’t like a person they have to give me good reason not to like them and so I will leave them alone completely rather then do them any harm. I wouldn’t treat my dog in the way some people treat others. People who don’t know how to treat people need to be sat down and not allowed into powerful positions at all because it seems like that’s what’s happening. People in power mistreating other human beings because they are full of themselves. I tell you any time it feels ok to mistreat, abuse and harm someone then know something is very wrong with that picture.

How about a world where if you do something dirty to someone it comes right back at you and quickly too. You don’t have to wait till later or when you die to be punished. I think that might stop a lot of shit from going on if justice was served up immediately on the kinds of people who don’t have a clue or don’t want to. I know this post will not be one of my popular ones but I have to put this out there into the universe yall. I tell you I bet you a thousand bucks if what you do comes right back on you I believe people will start changing their wicked ways and start learning how to stop the madness and start doing the right things like thinking before they act and loving and treating people better. Why not learn to be kinder, sweeter and have concern for each other and just treat people right period? Why is that so hard?

Well that’s the end of my rant.

Have a nice day everyone.

 

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~Heer-Rangha~Amazing Song By Sikandar: Kullfi Kumar Bajewala~

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~Heer Rangha New Emotional Romance Song

by Sikandar Singh Gill- Kulfi Kumar Bajewala~

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I love this video song on Youtube from one of my favorite Hindi serial shows “Kullfi Kumar Bajewala” being sung by Sikandar G. I wish I could find more songs from this show on Youtube.  Anyway I’ll enjoy this one for now.

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ummm ho… ho..

This is the story of love

This is the story of undivided devotion

This is the story of Ranjha

This is the story of Heer

Heer was everyone’s sweet heart

she was as sweet as jaggery

she was prettier than all the flowers

she was as fragile as a bud…….

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~Kullfi Kumarr Bajewala Cast~ 

Aakri Shama ~ Kullfi~

Mohit Malik ~ Sikander Singh Gill~

Vishal Aditya Singh ~ Tevar Singh~

Anjali Anand~ Loveleen Sikander Singh Gill~

Myra Singh~ Amyra Singh Gill~

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