Who Do You Know That’s Giving Their Children Away?

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Coming from a huge family was part of the norm back in the day. And my parents were happy to be a part of that trend of making babies like there was no tomorrow. LOL! And so they used to entertain very often and so we had lots of dear relatives and dear friends stopping by most of the time. They were what you call a part of our extended family, to say the least, and so in our household, there was never a dull moment whether friends and family stopped by or we just would have parties just between us just because.

And so there was a childless young and cute couple that used to come by our home often. Well, thank goodness that back in those days children weren’t present during grown folks conversations if you know what I mean. And so on one particular day, this childless couple asked my parents, mama, in particular, if they could adopt their little girl… that was me. And shortly after they left the house disappointed and empty-handed, Mama asked all of us a rhetorical question “Do you know of anyone who is giving their children away? She shook her head in disbelief and went on about her busy day. I tell you from the moment I was born I never felt in the slightest way like my parents didn’t want me or were dissatisfied with me as their daughter. I might have been a little naughty at times as little girls can be but I felt they were always so proud of me and just the fact that they showered me with so much of their love and cuddly care that I am so grateful for them to this very day. I’ll even go as far as to say that I never thought my parents could do anything wrong. Really! They were so much fun and entertaining and they cared about people as they were always reaching out to other families and other people’s children, helping where and whenever they could. I feel they were extraordinary and the most absolutely amazing parents and we bonded so very well. I didn’t feel like there were too many of us children in that they didn’t have time for me. I was so fortunate and greatly blessed to have them. But sometimes when I think back on this and my sisters love telling this story too. I used to wonder why did this childless couple pick me to want to adopt out of all of my parents’ children. Makes you wonder.

And so I think back about the time my mother was trying to break me out of my tomboyish ways. I tell people that I used to run with “wolves” because I used to love hanging out playing boyish games with my five brothers. Playing basketball, baseball, and riding homemade go-carts. Go-carts were made of wood and so my brothers used to nail a wooden milk crate to a long, thick, wood stick and put wheels on the stick and attach a steering rope to it and we would ride those things up and down the block and in the streets and of course two or three of them had to give the thing a push and run along side the thing for a while before it would roll for at least half a block on it’s on. I tell you those brothers of mine were so very creative.

So what convinced me to give up that enjoyable life with my brothers was the way my sisters started sticking me in the bathtub with some delicious smelling bath bubbles and lotion me down and my mama would have me put on some of the prettiest dresses on Gods green earth, lol! Then there were the cute little matching shoes, lace edged socks, and cute hair bows and ribbons and sometimes on special occasions the cute frilly hats and so that was all it took to get me to start liking being more girlish then being boyish. I loved the exchange of wearing all of those beautiful dresses instead of wearing overall jeans, sneakers, and a baseball cap on backward riding in those go-carts with my stinky sweaty and dirt faced brothers. There’s nothing about dressing like a little tomboy that I didn’t miss anymore. LOL! And so I guess that’s why even to this very day I own so many dresses in my closet right now. I never stopped loving dresses and I especially adore long dresses along with my love for Indian culture, Sari dresses most of all.

So as the years went by and the older I became, I was coming of age, learning how to apply beautiful makeup, and wear delicate lovely inexpensive jewelry pieces. I tell you my love for long flowy dresses of various colors became so addictive. And so years later when I met my handsome husband he didn’t seem to mind my addiction at all. (Smile)

So I like to keep my dresses clean and fresh hanging in my closet, on hooks outside my closet and some hang on hooks along the walls all around in my private dressing bedroom just so I can look at how pretty they are. When I get up in the morning and can’t quite decide which one, in particular I going to wear, I wind up with picking one that fits my mood for the day and the accessories to go along with the dress. Gosh, I tell you there is nothing more amazing than the feeling of being a woman who loves dresses. I am so glad I was born a girl! LOL! I get so caught up in all those feminine feelings of mine as my skin glows at the thought of it.

But anyhow why did I go off onto this topic I do not know. (Smile) But anyway I am so grateful that my parents weren’t in the business of giving away their children as mama used to say. Sometimes I wonder what would have happened if they did decide to give me away to that couple back then. And who knows how I may have turned out and I surely would have missed growing up in such an amazing and loving large family where there was never, ever a dull moment. No never ever! (Smile)

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It’s a Love Thing! ~The Things Mama Taught Her Girls~

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Every time that you’re near

it becomes so clear

it’s a love thing…

~The Whispers~

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Mother used to say it’s better if you let a man fall in love with you first, or says he loves you first or that he loves you period… end of story.

She taught her girls to not let our hearts rule or control us, but to use our brains when in a relationship and not in the way men do but in a way that is unique, being of the opposite sex, because it will save us lots of misery.

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~The Whispers~

“It’s A Love Thing”

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What Won’t Riddhima Do For Kabir’s Love? Could She Marry Another Man For Him? ~ Ishq Mein Marjawan Two

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…you can’t imagine what you do to me,

oh baby and love, your love

everytime you smile it goes through me all the time

~Donny Hathaway~

Love, Love Love”

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Riddhima was trying to figure a way of escape, wearing a beautiful red wedding dress as she was hiding in her bedroom stalling and trying to buy time while Vansh and his family were all impatiently waiting on her to show up to the wedding venue downstairs. Then suddenly Kabir snuck into her room and startled her as he made it there to rescue her just the nick of time from being forcefully married to a man she did not love.

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“Riddhima, this dress… is the one that you had dreamed of wearing at our wedding, right?” [Kabir]

“It is the same.” [Riddhima]

(She was so happy to give her reply as tears of joy were running down her face upon seeing him.)

“Who could dare to steal our dreams from our eyes? I will not let this wedding take place. Don’t worry.” [Kabir]

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I tell you she almost fainted from fear when she heard a gun shot ring. She thought one of Vansh’s men had caught Kabir while he was trying to get a hold of the piece of evidence they needed of Vansh’s business dealings and crimes from where she told him he’d find it. And so she hesitated in the storage room because she didn’t know what steps to take next, she was hurt and in shock. So when he showed up unharmed, she touched him and hugged on him because she thought the worst, she thought he was dead. So they decided to leave without the piece of evidence and fled the mansion, then suddenly Kabir hesitated once they reached the outside garden gazebo.

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“Kabir! If Vansh spots us he won’t spare our lives. Please come!” [Riddhima]

“No Riddihima!” [Kabir]

(Suddenly he pulled out a gun.)

“What…?” [Riddhima]

“I won’t die at the hands of Vansh.” [Kabir]

“What are you doing?” [Riddhima]

“Nor will I leave here as a coward. My mission was to capture Vansh. I didn’t want a medal from the government. This is my metal.” (He gestured with this gun pointed to his head.) “My death. And I will proudly welcome my death.” [Kabir]

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At the end of the episode, a few scenes were shown for this upcoming week’s show of Riddhima getting married to Vansh and Kabir asking her to help him.

“Riddhima, can you marry Vansh in order to help me with my mission?” [Kabir]

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Then later… Vansh reached out his hand and caught Riddhima’s tears. And because there was a sadness and look of anguish on her face Vansh asked.

“Why do you have tears in your eyes tonight?” [Vansh]

Not knowing that she was grieving for the love of Kabir and wishing he was there with her in his place instead. And so the next moment he’d reached into a box and pulled out a gun and pointed it directly in her face.

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And so I cannot wait to see what actually has happened. But I tell you in this scene of Vansh pointing a gun at her was not a surprise to me because he has done it to her once before as he was suspicious of her along with everyone else in the mansion thinking that people are trying to undermine him all the time. But on their wedding night, this man points a gun in the face of his newly wedded wife is too much to see. I can guess his huge ego cannot stand to see her desiring another man and not him. He is definitely gangster though! He forced her to marry him and then he wants to control her every thought and emotions too.

In the meantime, Riddhima has no idea that her delicate, simple, and feminine ways has awakened a love for her inside him. And he doesn’t know how to handle her in the right way. So he is treating her as he does anyone else he does not trust, yet she naturally entices him in such a way that he cannot let her go even though he does not know too much about her. In his world no one leaves Vansh without his permission, even if it means imprisoning them against their will. So poor Riddhima, there she finds herself caught between a rock and a hard place. Hence between her desire to please, love and help Kabir with his case at any cost and the love that Vansh feels for her which is extremely overbearing and intrusive. I feel for her. But what a triangle this is! So in the words of Vansh, I find this to be “very interesting!” (*smile*)

I tell you that Vansh’s good looks, quiet, dark, mysterious and intriguing manly ways can be such a turn on to most women plus the fact that he is rich, but Riddima cannot stand him at all because he is in the way of her getting married and becoming close to Kabir who is good looking, charming, kind and loving. All three actors are so, so very good at what they do. I am definitely hooked on this show.

~Ishq Mein Marjawan 2~

~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah)

~Kabir~ (Vishal Vashishtha)

~Vansh~ (Rrahul Sudhir)

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…day by day I’m falling more in love with you

and that’s no lie, cross my heart and honey I hope to die

Cause I’m not trying to mislead you, believe me, girl I really need you

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~Donny Hathaway~

“Love, Love, Love”

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~Vansh~ (Rrahul Sudhir) & ~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah) & ~Kabir~ (Vishal Vashishtha)~

 

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~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah) & ~Vansh~ (Rrahul Sudhir)~

 

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~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah) & ~Kabir~ (Vishal Vashishtha)~

 

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~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah) & ~Vansh~ (Rrahul Sudhir)~

 

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~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah) & ~Kabir~ (Vishal Vashishtha)~

 

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~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah) & ~Vansh~ (Rrahul Sudhir)~

 

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~Riddhima~ (Helly Shah) & ~Kabir~ (Vishal Vashishtha)~

 

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Cooking Is Not As Easy As Eating! The Men Of The Household Choose To Make The Sweets To Celebrate Anandi’s Success: Balika Bahu

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Hey Gehna. [Basant]

Yes. [Gehna]

You prepare sweets today for sure. With more butter and sugar. [Basant]

Okay. [Gehna]

Sister in law. I’ll prepare the sweets today. [Bhairon]

Why father in law? I will. [Anandi]

Why? Can only Sumitra feel proud of her daughter? I won’t leave any chance to do something for my daughter. No matter if the father shows it or not. But he gets happier about his child’s success than their mother. My daughter is far better than many sons. I am very happy today. I’ll make almond pudding for my daughter in law… [Bhairon]

Today I’ll too prepare the pudding with you… [Basant]

Let them prepare the pudding today, let them know cooking is not as easy as eating. [Sumitra]

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Anandi. (He lifts a spoonful of the pudding he had made for her to her mouth and as she is eating it she becomes a bit emotional) Hey, what happened! Is the pudding so badly prepared that it brought tears in your eyes? [Bhairon]

(She smiles) No! Father in law. It is so well prepared that it is difficult for me to handle so much love. My parents love me too. But you’ve raised me. You’ve given me love, which has become my strength. [Anandi]

Wow! The pudding is really delicious. It is far tastier then what we prepare. Gehna! we’ve lost our right to them. From now onward, let these two prepare this pudding. [Sumitra]

(Both brothers smile and glow with pride.)

Did you see my brother? [Basant]

(They all laugh and enjoy being in each other presence as they eat the pudding made by both brothers today.)

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~Balika Vadu Cast~

Bhairon Dharamveer Singh/Jagdish’s father (Anup Soni)

Sumitra Bhairon Singh/Jagdish’s mother (Smita Bansal)

Anandi Khajaan Singh/Anandi Jagdish Singh/ Jadish’s ex-wife (Pratyusha Banerjee)

Basant Dharamveer Singh/Basant Mahaveer Singh/Gehna’s husband (Satyajit Sharma)

Gehna Basant/Gehna Niranjan (Neha Marda)

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My Favorite Romantic Hindi Serial Theme Songs For 2020

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#1 Ishq Mein Marjawan 2 (A Romance, Thriller, Drama)

Riddhima (Helly Shah) & Kabir (Vishal Vashishtha) & Vansh (Rrahul Sudhir)

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Ishq Mein Marjawan 2 is my number one favorite Hindi serial theme song of lately. I am in love with the Hindi serial Ishq Mein Marjawan Two with Helly Shah and Vishal Vashishtha as the main characters. Helly plays Riddhima Rai Singhania, Kabir’s girlfriend and later to become Vansh’s wife and Vishal Vashishtha who plays Kabir Sharma is an agent who is trying to expose Vansh Rai Singhania and bring down his corrupt dynasty with the help of Riddhima who is risking all to the point that she agrees to marry Vansh who is played by Rrahul Sudhir although she is in love with Kabir and actually planned to marry him before she took on the role to help expose Vansh for Kabir. Riddhima loves Kabir so much that she put her life in danger to please him.

I tell you I could not get enough of her when she was in Swaragini-Jodein Rishton Ke Sur as Swara Maheshwari and Vishal cannot get no better because he is top rated in my book. I loved him when he played Baldev Balwant Singh in Ek Veer Ki Ardaas Veera and in Jai Kanhaiya Lal Ke, as Kanhaiya/Shaurya Gupta. He is an excellent and very talented actor and performer. And it is so amazing to see them both paired together in this show which I cannot wait till the next episode each day. Their theme song is so amazing and matches perfectly with the storyline.

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#2 Kehne Ko Humsafar Hain

Rohit (Ronit Mehra) & Ananya (Mona Singh) & Poonam (Gurdeep Kolhi)

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#3 Choti Sarrdaarni

Meher (Nimrit Kaur Ahluwalias) & Sarabjit (Avinesh Rekhi) & Param (Kevina Tak)

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#4 Barrister Babu

Bondita Anirudh Roy Choudhary/Child Bride (Aurra Bhatnagar Badoni) & Anirudh Roy Choudhary (Pravisht Mishra) & Saudamini Bhaumik/Anirudh’s former lover (Pranali Rathore)

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~Ladh Liya Tere Liye Sabse/ Barrister Babu Duet Song~

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~Soudamini Background Theme Music/Barrister Babu~

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~Bondita Background Theme Song/Barrister Babu~

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Riddhima (Helly Shah) & Kabir (Vishal Vashishtha) & Vansh (Rrahul Sudhir)

 

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Riddhima (Helly Shah) & Kabir (Vishal Vashishtha) 

 

 

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When Faced With People In Cahoots Together To Cause Harm Or To Try To Steal Your Joy… Know The Truth Prevails And Be Happy! Happiness Is The Truth! ~Balika Vahdu~

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When an innocent man is subjected to a conspiracy

he wishes badly to reveal the truth which

strengthens his self-confidence.

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~Balika Vahdu~

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I have been fortunate and greatly blessed to have been raised by two beautiful and amazing parents who raised me right and taught me how to be in this world. Because in today’s world you need every ounce of strength you got when dealing with a number of individuals who are in cahoots together to try to bring you down and/or steal your joy.

I tell you that I have always been that “happy go lucky” type of person and I love being the happy individual that I truly am who is that way without apology or fear of being so.

At times when I feel such a great amount of love and happiness inside my heart and soul that it reverberates all around me, that’s when I sometimes wonder and think that maybe my parents must have been sending me so many happy and loving vibes all throughout the time I spent inside my mother’s womb! LOL!

And so as usual someone amazing (an angel) comes along to remind me that some people just love fighting, bringing emotional chaos, and causing havoc where peace and happiness reside. Even if on their outward appearance they act like and say well I am a positive person and I am all about positivity and I have a good relationship with the Lord. Don’t fall for the okey doke! Some people are not as they appear to be, they actually are coming to take your self confidence, peace and emotional stability. A lot of times they are coming from a place of jealousy and envy due to their own insecurity. So I say don’t fret, nor worry but stay calm as a cucumber baby, and know that you are surrounded by the grace and love of God!

You know there’s an old saying “Misery Loves Company” and I tell you that the only time or way a person who no doubt is a miserable being in “their world” on this earth can actually succeed in breaking your spirit inside “your world” on this amazing earth… is ONLY WHEN AND IF you ALLOW or give them the POWER to do it. So I say NEVER LET THEM DO IT! No matter what! Trust me when I tell you that at the end of the day people get what is coming to them when they come with evil intentions.

Yes go ahead and deal with what you must deal with and HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS, and show up in life to deal with whatever may be going on and all the affairs in this world… because with life there are challenges and don’t give up everytime a door is closed to you. Keep moving forward in life and set goals and reach for the stars. BUT like Pharrell’s song says…

Here come bad news talking this and that

Yeah, give me all you got, don’t hold back

Yeah, well I should probably warn you I’ll be just fine

Yeah, no offense to you don’t waste your time

Here’s why:

(because I’m happy)

Good Lord, I love this song! LOL! I can play this song all day long. LOL! So I encourage you my friends that when you are knocked down, get back up again and brush yourself off and “Keep On Keeping On!” and be that strong and mighty sister or brother who knows their own truth! Be happy always and forevermore!

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HAPPINESS IS THE TRUTH!

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~Pharrell Williams~

~Because I’m Happy (Official Music Video)~

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~Celine Dion~

~That’s The Way It Is~

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~BE HAPPY! BE LOVING! BE KIND! LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE!~

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~KEEP ON KEEPING ON! ENJOY THE THINGS THAT BRING A SMILE TO YOUR FACE.~

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~BE GIVING! BE HONEST! BE GOOD AND A DECENT HUMAN BEING!~

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~DO THE RIGHT THINGS AT ALL TIMES! REMEMBER KARMA IS STILL A B***H! WHAT YOU DO WRONG TO ANOTHER INDIVIDUAL WILL ALWAYS COME BACK TO YOU, THREEFOLD!~ GOD DON’T LIKE UGLY! lol!

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~Pharrell Williams~

~Happy (Official Music Video) Lyrics~

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Here come bad news talking this and that

Yeah, give me all you got, don’t hold back

Yeah, well I should probably warn you I’ll be just fine

Yeah, no offense to you don’t waste your time

Here’s why:

(because I’m happy)

Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof

(because I’m happy)

Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth

(because I’m happy)

Clap along if you know what happiness is to you

(because I’m happy)

Clap along if you feel like that’s what you wanna do

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Happy, come on, bring me down

Happy, come on, bring me down

My Love Is too high to bring me down

Can’t nothing, bring me down

I said bring me down

Can’t nothing, bring me down

My Love is too high to bring me down

Can’t nothing, bring me down

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Perhaps You Were Born For Such A Time As This?

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I remember the day when I decided I didn’t want to walk in fear anymore… and so the rest is history! And sometimes I find that I still lose my way.

“Love casts out fear” is what the scripture says… and I know that although we must have a certain amount of fear inside because the fear to a certain degree is healthy and can protect us but it should never be in excess that it can cripple us. So I like to find ways to help remove and stop all my fears and doubts from overtaking me especially because I believe I was born for such a time as this.

And one of the ways in which I have done this is to stay clear of watching and reading about too much bad news and take a break because it basically creates and cultivates an unhealthy state of mind. So it’s good to fill up my waking days doing the things that can bring me joy.

In times like these, I find joy watching outside my window the antics of my adorable little cats and dogs and even watching videos of the cutest little pets. It is amazing how God’s little creatures have a way of putting back on a smile to your face and change perspective.

Doing something crafty, watering a few plants, reading an inspiring and delightful book, watching a good movie, playing a board game with someone I love, pampering myself and dressing up, decorating, listening to music, watching a favorite TV serial, learning a new foreign language, reading my bible, meditating on God, living my best life and cultivating my mind into thinking on good things help ease my mind and bring back the peace I desperately need.

I believe if you are alive and breathing then you are meant to be here and that’s it in a nutshell. We all have a purpose in living life and are our brother’s keepers. We are all here to encourage one another and be good, kind, and loving to each other. So being positive and having faith to believe God is very much in control of all things in life and of all people is so much better than allowing worry to take up too much space in our minds. And when I see bad things happening to good people I lean in on God hard.

I know there are some issues in life that seem unavoidable and inevitable and that we find uncomfortable dealing with but that’s when you do your best and let God do the rest. But it does not mean that I should stop working on cultivating joy, peace, and happiness in my world. Even the littlest and simple things in life bring about joy. So being very cautious about who and what I allow into my life is very important to me if I want to hold on to the little joy, peace, and happiness I have while in the midst of a troubling world.

I know it looks like evil is gaining and winning and it makes you wonder where is God in all of this. But just when my mind drifts to the point that doubt and disbelief want to set it’s self up in my soul and set up residence by hanging up curtains in the kitchen, it seems like God would always send me an angel of some sort. It seems like he would send someone to me and set things in motion to remind me that “He” is still in control and always will be. He is truly amazing and the one I need to keep me on the path of the straight and narrow because I know I don’t like how bad it feels when I’m in fear and have lost my way.

So I send out best wishes to many who are in the midst of so much that is bringing on feelings of unrest, trouble, fear, struggle, pain, and loss. I would encourage you to believe the Almighty God knows what’s best for us all and is still in control of all things good and bad.

May the grace of God, love, and peace abide in the hearts of many. May blessings, love, joy, and peace abound even in such a time as this…

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Whatever the distractions are, they are there.

Our responsibility is to deal with the rhythms of life,

not just to moan and groan…..

but to do our share to make

our lives as fulfilling as can be.

~Bob Law~

of Night Talk (WWRL)~

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I’m Ok With The Meat Shortages… Veggies Are The Way: Prepping

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Yep, so I am ok with the meat shortages going on because I basically am not a big-time meat eater anyway. But I do feel for the people who have become panicky and afraid by the shortages because they feel the meat is important and a huge part of their diets. I feel why live in fear when there are so many meat substitutes available.

So anyway, I cannot see myself being worried in the least because there are so many more types of food to eat so why focus on what’s not going to be available anymore. I tell you I do enjoy the different varieties of fruits and vegetables and the nice selection of whole grains and beans as well. So as long as I have access to some type of food I am fine. No, really I am fine.

There have been plenty of days and weeks where I have gone without eating any type of meat at all. And I am not saying I won’t miss it but at the same time hey what you gonna do. I feel as long as there are various kinds of bread and whole grains still available to eat I can survive knowing they are very filling.

I tell you, I can eat cereals and oatmeal any time of the day and it does not bother me one bit that I did not have a burger or steak. There have been plenty of times that I had cereal for dinner and that was it. And then the way a lot of health guru’s talk anyway… they think the consumption of meat is not good for health.

So as long as we can find so many amazing meatless recipes then what’s the big deal. So that’s what stays on my mind whenever I feel like I should have some meat, the fact that I can have an apple, orange, or a slice of bread instead. No big loss. I’m all for the vegan folks now. LOL!

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The Past Can’t Be Undone: Shrimad Bhagwat Mahapuran

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What are you thinking about? [Radha]

I am thinking about the past, Radha, and how it cannot be undone. However, the past ought to stay alive, Radha that is because death is not a permanent solution. If one is born one will inevitably die and if one dies one is born again. Hence, we must not forget the past, we ought to keep it safe. [Kanha]

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~Shrimad Bhagwat Mahapuran~

Goddess Radha (Shiny Doshi)

Lord Krishna (Rajneesh Duggal)

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Adult Creature Comforts and Ample Clothing For Growing Children: Prepping

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Given the state of the economy and when it comes to SHTF situations most people forget about the fact that they will need ample clothing for the different seasons in various sizes and that includes warm clothing, shoes, coats, boots, gloves, scarfs and things like that because after a while things do wear out. At this point, I do not discard old clothes or any type of fabric as I am holding onto everything I possibly can. And I neatly store these items away in a closet or in a suitcase somewhere tucked away in the house or bagged up in the shed just in case someone can use them.

So purchasing that extra pair of shoes, boots, socks, etc will be very helpful. Especially when it comes to children who will grow out of their clothing and things. I tell you if I were a young mother today I would definitely try to pursue certain skill sets like sewing and then start to stock up on different types of fabrics and sewing patterns so I can make my children’s clothing if need be as they grow out of their clothes. I’m just saying.

I would also buy for each child an extra pair of shoes and boots a few sizes bigger and put them away just in case. I’m just saying.

And these items don’t have to be on the expensive side and so as a young mother I would surely live in Walmart and Target when it comes to buying for children during this time. And I’d make sure they each have a backpack full of comfort items for them as well such as a few small toys or that snuggly soft blanket.

So as a grandmother I have thought about this so I set aside plenty of cloth diapers and children’s colorful fabric for my grands and perhaps other people’s babies, along with a few games and toys, you know just in case.

As adults, we will want our comfort items too. For me, I have purchased a stack full of various nail products such as nail polish, all sorts of press on nails, polish remover, and cotton balls. I also ordered the reusable press on nail kits like “All Dashing” and “Kiss” along with an extra gel nail polish kit and nail foils just before this pandemic because although I don’t do nail shops but if I did or didn’t I would want to have these things on hand to pamper myself so as I am stuck sitting at home I sure would like to make sure my nails are looking pretty still, hey… why not.

And although I myself am not an alcoholic drinker… never was… because I always prefered to get high on life itself. So yeah, go ahead and get that bottle of wine now if you drink alcoholic beverages or entertain with a close friend because from what I understand for some it helps soothe and calm you when on the outside it looks as if the world is falling to pieces.

So whatever your creature comfort items are I’d say it’s time to try to stock up on some of the things like this now while you still have time and access to them at the stores because one thing this pandemic is teaching a lot of people is that these types of situations will arise when you least expect it so it pays to be as ready as possible. So good luck people.

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