HAPPY APRIL FOOLS DAY!

HAY YALL! It’s that time of the year again. The day when pranksters rein. I think it’s the most incredible time of the year. It’s the most glorious time because for me, I get to have humongous belly laughs. As I move from one person to the next. They never ever have a clue that today is April fools day, it’s truly amazing. For some reason people always forget that it’s April fools day and get fooled by me every single time, every single year. LOL! Especially from the people who take life way too seriously, their reaction is the most joyful.

It’s such a joy…. playing prankster for the day. I Love It! LOL!

So for all April Fools Lovers, IT’S YOUR DAY TO SHINE! GO AHEAD GET YOUR GAME ON, gear up your ideas, dust off your whoopee cushions, create havoc and mischief, make the best of your practical jokes, create funny situations and stunts. Get on out there today and make a few people laugh at themselves.

SO………GET READY! GET SET! GO GET THEM!

The April Fools Rhyme”

April fools,

go to school,

tell your teacher she’s a fool,

if she smacks you don’t you cry,

take your books and say goodbye

HAVE A HAPPY APRIL FOOLS DAY EVERYONE!

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THERES NO PARTY LIKE A SANGEET PARTY! Hey..ho…hey…ho!

English: Sangeet Natak Akademi Delhi organized...

English: Sangeet Natak Akademi Delhi organized a festival of performances of recipients of Young Awardees of 2007.I attended performance Manipuri dance by Laishram Bina Devi . Here is photo taken during performance. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Sangeet is a fun pre wedding ceremony held mostly in North Indian weddings and is a must amongst Punjabi’s and Gujarati’s. Sangeet is considered a major dance performance and party night for the families and the friends to the wedding party or even a little something special for the Bride or Groom themselves.

I had so much fun on YouTube watching a few of these functions and they danced, danced and danced and were so amazing! I tell you these I saw on YouTube are so very talented! For a minute there I thought I was watching the show Dancing with the Stars or something. So so amazing they are! I was about to wave my hands up in the air and say, Hey….ho….hey….ho! LOL!

Udari and Sangeeth Wedding Surprise Dance Act

(THIS ONE IS SO AMAZING! THIS BRIDE IS SO BEAUTIFUL

AND COULD DANCE SO WELL. I give it 5 stars*****)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s65lG2DxkAA

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The Season’s Galore (bn: Rituranga) dances wit...

The Season’s Galore (bn: Rituranga) dances with Rabindranath Tagore’s song (bn: Rabindra Sangeet) performed by the ‘Kalamandalam’, Kolkata. It was choreographed & directed by Dr. Thankamany Kutty at Science City, Kolkata. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

The best Sangeet performance

(this one is the funniest and had me smiling and laughing so much)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUbqTAwYIcQ

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brother’s sangeet dance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxKtpn1pBEQ

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Ricky & Yasmine sangeet dance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_hPjArvXTg

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Khushi & Akshay’s sangeet performance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PDekvFRuno

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Pratik weds Urvi – Sangeet (Ishq wala love)

THIS ONE IS SO PRETTY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=teDT-RaifBI

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Amar hiral sangeet sandhiya (Tum hi ho…!!!)

EXTRA NICE AND PRETTY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anzece2X-J8

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Awesome Sangeet dance performance by the bride ‘Kavita’ :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCJLKgMMMFc

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My sisters at Sangeet.MOV

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n6skQorg-0Y

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English: Sangeet Natak Akademi Delhi organized...

English: Sangeet Natak Akademi Delhi organized a festival of performances of recipients of Young Awardees of 2007.I attended performance of Mohiniattam by Methil Devika. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Anum’s Mehndi Dance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwxHW9dvtC8

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WHAT 7 BROTHERS DID FOR THEIR SISTER – EPIC DANCE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGJWTfYA9Vc

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best dance in ladies sangeet

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HN9YozJjXyA

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Ishrat and Riyad performing on their Sangeet Night! Part-1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHTGjtody34

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ARTICLE ON SANGEET PARTIES AT I LOVE INDIA.COM

http://weddings.iloveindia.com/indian-weddings/pre-wedding-functions/sangeet.html

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English: Sangeet Natak Akademi Delhi organized...

English: Sangeet Natak Akademi Delhi organized a festival of performances of recipients of Young Awardees of 2007.I attended performance of Mohiniattam by Methil Devika, Manipuri by Laishram Bina Devi and Kuchipudi by Yamini Reddy. Here some shots taken during performance. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

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~Sky Lanterns Go To Some Unknown Magical Place Where All Loving Wishes Go~ Doli Armaano KI

.. as they lifted it up and let that paper “sky lantern” fly away,

letting go of all worries from the past, putting forth their wishes,

releasing them into the starry sky above, they resumed holding each other close,

watching intensely, as it began to float up high, up and away into the night’s starry sky,

in it’s possession was their wishes, their hopes and their dreams

for a loving today and tomorrow, floating somewhere far away

or someplace quaintly near, but yet it floats to some

unknown magical place, where all loving wishes go…….

~~~

Urmi (Neha Marda) and hubby Ishaan (Vibhav Roy) are spending time away from it all. Ishaan’s father’ surprised them both with this loving gift…… a glorious honeymoon vacation. They looked so amazing on this week’s episodes on Doli Armaano Ki.

Urmi’s so beautiful, light and breezy, wearing a feminine long flowing pearly, lacy white, summery dress, as Ishaan appeared so dashingly charming wearing white linen pants and a long sleeved light linen white shirt. It’s so good to see that their romance has picked up some steam.

Deutsch: Maldives

Deutsch: Maldives (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

In the essence of the moment, they were raptured and in love. Looking so irresistibly sweet, holding hands as they strolled bare feet on the beautiful white sandy beaches of the Maldives. Such an amazing and lovely place to be no doubt.

The scenery is so beautiful and intoxicating, just to see them holding each other closely, their happiness was so obvious all the while. At one moment Urmi ran a little ahead of Ishaan, looking like a dreamy fairy as she chased some pretty seashells in the sand.

Finally, Ishaan’s wait is over now, ah! so amazingly so, as the moment he’d patiently waited for has come true. You could see how the day’s spent on the beach just melted away all the stresses they had been under and as he romantically lay his head on Urmi’s lap, he became drunk by the peaceful sounds of the ocean waves, the smell of the salty sea and in Urmi’s love. I know it felt so nice for them to spend this time together as they celebrate their love with no interruptions, distractions, conniving schemes or disturbances, especially from Urmi’s impossible ex husband Samrat Singh Rathore (Mohit Malik.)

As it took a while, but Urmi and Ishaan’s love has happily grown by leaps and bounds. Ishaan finally won over Urmi’s sweet heart. To his surprise she finally confessed her love to him, so their marriage is no longer one sided with him doing all the loving because of Urmi’s legitimate fears about her painful bad marriage of the past with Samrat. Their marriage was no masquerade as was her marriage with Samrat, but theirs is now a mutually respectful and loving one, that has had a chance to move gently along into one incredibly amazing relationship between the two.

So one starry night on that beach, they lit and held up a bright red “Kongming Sky Lantern” as they took turns expressing their hopes, dreams and making wishes for their today and tomorrows. It was so obvious that their hearts were genuine as they sent forth their wishes, almost as wedding vows being spoken all over again, they said these loving words……….

I wish that the two of us always be together… [Ishaan Sinha]

No matter what the hardship, we’ll face it together, may we always be together in every eventuality…..[Urmi Ishaan Sinha]

May nobody else ever come in the way of our love… [Ishaan Sinha]

May there be no misunderstanding between the two of us. No matter what happens, may we always trust each other. May our trust always remain intact….. [Urmi Ishaan Sinha]

May our relationship be the most beautiful in the world. May we set an example for the world to follow, with our unbreakable bond, even after we are long gone……. [Ishaan Sinha]

May our relationship always bind us together, even after death. May our relationship stay intact in every life. I genuinely hope to be your wife in every life and have you as my husband…….

[Urmi Ishaan Sinha]

In the next moment as they lifted it up and let that paper “sky lantern” fly away,

letting go of all the worries from the past, putting forth their wishes,

releasing them into the starry sky above, they resumed holding each other close,

watching intensely, as it began to float up high, up and away into the night’s starry sky,

in it’s possession was their wishes, their hopes and their dreams

for a loving today and tomorrow, floating somewhere far away

or someplace quaintly near, but yet it floats to some

unknown magical place, where all loving wishes go…….

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Shower me with your love,

the monsoon has arrived

The season for the two of us to get close has arrived

Author: Bagande

Author: Bagande (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Shower me with your love,

the monsoon has arrived

The season for the two of us to get close has arrived

I want to hide you from everyone and embrace you,

I want to cross all limits in your love,

for the first time I’m feeling so much in love

Shower me with your love,

the monsoon has arrived

The season for the two of us to get close has arrived

I want to hide you from everyone and embrace you,

I want to cross all limits in your love,

for the first time I’m feeling so much in love

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~Neha Marda~ Urmi Samrat Singh Rathore/Urmi Ishaan Sinha

~Vibhav Roy~ Ishaan Sinha

~DOLI ARMAANO KI~

Maldives island. Baa Atoll. Reethi Beach Resor...

Maldives island. Baa Atoll. Reethi Beach Resort (RBR). beach on east side; morning (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Link to find more info on Sky Lanterns: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sky_lantern

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Weathering the Storm

Originally posted on Roger Tharpe:

storm
As a believer in Jesus Christ the first thing you must understand is that this world is not your home. Do not forget this. This is important. I know you have decorated the home and everything looks nice, but you are a sojourner. This thought must be fastened within your mind.

Now that you understand that you live in a temporary home, whether you paid off the mortgage or not, you understand that all storms are temporary. They will all pass. A believer in Jesus Christ is an eternal being. The concept is difficult to grasp, but nonetheless truth.

While you live in this temporary body you are subject to invisible warfare. Because many believers miss the first paragraph, it becomes almost difficult for them to get the second and even this third. It is because you are stuck in the natural. If you had the eyes that I…

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My Mum Travelled And Left The Gas Cooker Running for 24 Hours

Originally posted on Victory Odunjo's Blog:

If you think miracles have stopped happening, you need to read this story.

A few weeks back, my mum needed to go on a journey. You know how a journey is, the earlier you leave, the better for you. So my mum was running late on this particular afternoon. She chose to eat something before the long trip, which was very wise. She whipped up something quick that required frying. As she got the last portion out of the hot oil, she dashed out of the house and joined the already waiting vehicle. She totally forgot to switch off the cooker which still had hot oil in the frying pan on it.

The journey was smooth and fulfilling. Anyone that knows about fire accidents, especially involving oil and fire, or gas and fire would let you know quickly that not much is needed for a fire to be started. I…

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Anjali’s Wealth: Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon?…..Ek Baar Phir

A woman’s most prized possessions are her husband and her happy family.

I’m a wealthy woman.

Trust me.

I am contented.

[Anjali Niranjan Agnihotri]

….Now even if something happens to me…..[Anjali Niranjan Agnihotri]

Enough….. Why are you being so negative? You’re the one who has always kept the family together. [Niranjan Agnihotri]

Yes, Mom….. What are you saying? You’ve a lot to see in life. You need to see Shlok and Astha’s children. You also need to attend Kavya’s wedding, right? [Varad Niranjan Agnihotri]

Wow, dad! When will I get married? [Kavya Varad Agnihotri]

Mother-in-law, father-in-law and you must perform the ritual. [Sojal Varad Agnihotri]

No. All four of us will perform the ritual together so that our family never parts and we remain each others strength. [Anjali Niranjan Agnihotri]

Come. [Niranjan Agnihotri]

“CAST”

~Manish Wadhwa~ Niranjan Agnihotri

~Geetanjali Tikekar~ Anjali Niranjan Agnihotri

~Samir Sharma~ Varad Niranjan Agnihotri

~Shalmalee Desai~ Sojal Varad Agnihotri

~Grace Girdhar~ Kavya Varad Agnihotri

~Avinash Sachdev~ Shlok Niranjan Agnihotri

~Shrenu Parikh~ Aastha Shlok Agnihotri

ISS PYAAR KO KYA NAAM DOON?…..EK BAAR PHIR

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Love Me Some Miriam Makeba

Miriam Makeba in 67

“Pata Pata Song”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87S_wbCsNbQ

Miriam Makeba in 2006

“Pata Pata Song”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E0Oj6ScoL_M

Miriam Makeba represents! She was a Grammy award African singer and civil rights activist. I remember her lovely song “Pata Pata” and it is such an upbeat lively song. She had an extraordinary life. She’s another amazing woman I admire and adore.

Africa (Miriam Makeba album)

Africa (Miriam Makeba album) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

More info on her life: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miriam_Makeba

English: Miriam Makeba and Dizzy Gillespie in ...

English: Miriam Makeba and Dizzy Gillespie in concert, Deauville (Normandy, France), July 20, 1991. Français : La chanteuse sud-africaine Miriam Makeba avec le trompettiste américain Dizzy Gillespie en concert à Deauville (Normandie, France) le 20 juilet 1991. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

“Pata Pata Song Lyrics”

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

“Pata Pata” is the name of a dance we do down Johannesburg way.

everybody starts to move as soon as “Pata Pata” starts to play – whoo

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Whoo, every Friday and Saturday night it’s “Pata Pata” time

The music keeps going all night long till the morning sun begins to shine – hey!

Aya sat waguqa sathi – wo-ho-o

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguquka sathi bheka, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

aHiyo mama ahiyo mama, nants’ iPata Pata

Saguqa sath’ – ahi ti!

Aah- saguqa sath’ – nantsi – ahi ti!

Saguqa sathi bheka nants’ iPata Pata

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THE JEZEBEL SPIRIT~ VERSUS~ THE SARAH SPIRIT

There are differences between the Godly woman versus the ungodly woman and they are huge! As when compared to these two women in the Bible. Sarah, Abrahams wife is a type of Godly woman and Jezebel, Ahab’s wife is a type of ungodly woman. The Sarah qualities are the ones Christian woman as myself are trying to grow into daily. This list is amazing and very inspiring.                                             

WHEN THE Jezebel SPIRIT is                                             THE SARAH SPIRIT is

(the ungodly/worldy woman)                                                            (the godly woman)

PROUD………                                                                                      ……….HUMBLE

JEALOUS……….                                                                                ……….CONTENT

COMPETITIVE………..                                                                    ……….HAPPY FOR OTHERS

ARROGANT…………                                                                          ……….MEEK

BOSSY……..                                                                                          ……….GENTLE

MANIPULATIVE…..                                                                          ……….TRUTHFUL

SELF-CENTERED…..                                                                       ……….ATTENTIVE

A DRAMA QUEEN…..                                                                       ………..A PROBLEM SOLVER

RUDE…..                                                                                               ………..WELL BEHAVED

CROSSING BORDERS………                                                             ………. RESPECTFUL

CONDESCENDING…..                                                                       …………..HONORING

AGGRESSIVE…..                                                                                …………SELF CONTROLLED

LOUD…….                                                                                            ………….QUIET

ATTENTION SEEKING…….                                                        ……………ATTENTION GIVING

FAKE ………..                                                                                   ……………GENUINE

SELF-RIGHTEOUS …..                                                                    ……………REPENTANT

CONTROLLING………..                                                                  …………………..TRUSTING

FALSE…………..                                                                                   …………….REAL

UNAFFECTIONATE………                                                            ………………………….LOVING

GREEDY………….                                                                                …………….SACRIFICIAL

HAUGHTY…………….                                                                           …………….LOWLY

DEFILED .………..                                                                                         …………PURE

A KNOW IT ALL……….                                                                          ……………..TEACHABLE

UNSETTLED………                                                                                ……………..PEACEFUL

REBELLIOUS………                                                                               …………….SUBMISSIVE

IMPATIENT…………                                                                            …………..LONG-SUFFERING

LIVING LARGE……….                                                                           ……………FRUGAL

DEMANDING………..                                                                           …………….PATIENT

COLD-HEARTED………..                                                                  ……………GOOD-HEARTED

OFFENSIVE…………                                                                               …………..KIND

OFFENDED…………                                                                                  ………….FORGIVING

BITTER………                                                                                                ……………..JOYFUL

WOUNDED………                                                                                      ………….HEALING

HYPOCRITICAL…………                                                                           …………INTEGER

DRIVEN…………                                                                                         …………..IS AT EASE

CONFUSED…………                                                                                …………..CONFIDENT

UNSETTLED……………                                                                           ……………….STABILE

POWER HUNGRY……….                                                                         …………SERVING

AT ODDS WITH LIFE……..                                       …………….ACCEPTING HER LOT IN LIFE

LYING…………                                                                                              …………HONEST

CONDITIONAL………….                                                                       ………….UNCONDITIONAL

POSSESSED……….                                                                                ……………DELIVERED

RELIGIOUS…..                                                                                ……………..A TRUE BELIEVER

CARNAL………..                                                                                  ……….SPIRITUAL

IMMORAL……..                                                                               ……………A ROLE MODEL

WHEN THE Jezebel SPIRIT is                                                 THE SARAH SPIRIT is

JUDGMENTAL……..                                                                        …………… GRACEFUL

UNEDUCATED……..                                                                           ………….KNOWLEDGABLE

FEARFUL……..                                                                                       ……………….. BRAVE

COWARDICE………                                                                              ………….COURAGEOUS

UNSATISFIED………                                                                           ……………THANKFUL

DEROGATORY……….                                                                         …………..ENCOURAGING

CALCULATED……….                                                                 ………….INNOCENT AT HEART

CONNIVING………                                                                      ………………PRAYERFUL

HATEFUL………                                                                             ………………A BLESSER

A LOW SELF ESTEEM……….                                               ………….KNOWS SHE IS LOVED

CONFLICT ORIENTED……………                                                ………………A PEACEMAKER

A PUNISHER…………..                                                                             ……….MERCIFUL

STEPS LIKE AN ELEPHANT………….                                           ……………..ELEGANT

IS PEOPLE ORIENTED………….                                                    ……………..GOD ORIENTED

SELF-WILLED………….                                                              ………………………OBEDIENT

CRITICAL………..                                                                                       …………POSITIVE

CYNICAL……….                                                                              …………STRAIGHT FORWARD

INSECURE……….                                                                               …………….SECURE

UNRELIABLE………….                                                                    ………….DEPENDABLE

SUSPICIOUS……………….                                                             ……………BELIEVING

WITHDRAWN……………                                                              ……………….OPEN

SECRETIVE…………                                                            ……………..TRANSPARENT

CONFRONTATIONAL……….                                                  …………………WISE

DOMINATING………….                                                                …………YIELDING

CONVINCED………….                                                              …………SEEKING ADVICE

STUBBORN……….                                                                         ……………PLIABLE

MALICIOUS…………                                                                  ……………FRIENDLY

VINDICTIVE…………                                                                   ………….HELPFUL

RESENTFUL………..                                                        ……….BELIEVING THE BEST

DIFFICULT……..                                                                  …………..FLEXIBLE

PARANOID……….                                                                     …………..RELAXED

DELUSIONED………                                                               ………..REALISTIC

MANIFESTS UGLINESS…….                                              …………..ATTRACTIVE

OPINIONATED………                                                                …………PENSATIVE

VULGAR………..                                                                          …………..PRIVATE

IS BRAZEN……….                                                                 ……………TACTFUL

DEPRESSED….                                                                  …………….HOPEFUL

VIOLENT……                                                                  ……………DISCIPLINED

DISCONTENT………                                                                  ……………HAPPY

A FALSE PROPHET………..                                           …………BIBLICALLY SOUND

SEDUCTIVE……….                                                          …………..MODEST

UNCORRECTABLE…………..                                              ………….CORRECTABLE

SHAMELESS……….                                                            …………..CONSCIENTIOUS

TAKING…………                                                                        ………….GIVING

WICKED………..                                                                       …………..GODLY

DEFENSIVE…….                                                                  ……………A GOOD LISTENER

STANDOFFISH………                                                            ……………EMBRACING

WHEN THE Jezebel SPIRIT is                                       THE SARAH SPIRIT is

DIVISIVE…..                                                                              ……….RECONCILING

DESTRUCTIVE…..                                                                  …………BUILDING UP

PESSIMISTIC…..                                                                     ……………OPTIMISTIC

GLUTTONOUS…..                                                                      ………..MODERATE

UNRULY…..                                                                                …………….UNDER AUTHORITY

GOSSIPY…..                                                                                ……………TRUSTWORTHY

BELITTLING…..                                                                       ………………HONORING

A DECEIVER…..                                                                      ……………. A GUIDING LIGHT

A CRIMINAL…..                                                                        …………..HONORABLE

IS FROWNING…..                                                                   ……………SMILING

DEMONIC…..                                                                            …………….HOLY SPIRIT FILLED

SINFUL…..                                                                                 ……………FORGIVEN

UNHOLY…..                                                                              ……………RIGHTEOUS

UNFAIR…..                                                                                  ………………JUST

COMPLAINING…..                                                                    ……….. WORSHIPING

UNBELIEVING…..                                                                     …………HAS FAITH

TORMENTED…..                                                                   …………HAS PEACE OF MIND

SEEKING ADMIRATION…..                                             ………….POINTING TO JESUS

SEEKING APPROVAL AND ACCEPTANCE…. ……………KNOWS WHO SHE IS IN CHRIST

COMPULSIVE…..                                                                     ……….SPIRIT LED

IN BONDAGE…..                                                                      ………….SET FREE

LOVES TO LEAD…..                                                          ……………A FOLLOWER OF CHRIST

A DESECRATOR…..                                                            ……………A SANCTIFIER

PROMISCUOUS…..                                                                …………..PIOUS

LAZY…..                                                                                     ……………A HARD WORKER

DECEPTIVE…..                                                                 …………….KEEPS HER WORD

A SPENDER…..                                                                            ………….A GIVER

IS ABUSIVE…..                                                                             ………….CARING

IS GUILT-TRIPPING OTHERS…..                               ………………. TALKS STRAIGHT TALK

UNDERMINING…..                                                        ……………STRENGTHENING

DISCONTENT…..                                                                  …………..HAPPY

THREATENING…..                                                                 ………….PROTECTING

ADULTEROUS…..                                                                                ……………..FAITHFUL

ARGUMENTATIVE…..                                                                       ……………REFLECTIVE

CARRIES GRUDGES…..                                                        ……………RELEASES OFFENSES

FIGHTS FOR HER RIGHTS…..                                       ……………..SURRENDERS HER LIFE

IS RECKLESS…..                                                                    …………….DISCREET

IS DEFIANT…..                                                                                 …………..WILLING

IS INDIFFERENT…..                                                                  ………………..INTERESTED

A BACKSTABBER…..                                             ……………PAYS BACK EVIL WITH GOOD

IS STRIVING…..                                                                            ……………..ANOINTED

(I found the info for this amazing list over at Institute of Love by Edward & Christina Christaan)

English: Jezabel and Ahab Meeting Elijah in Na...

English: Jezabel and Ahab Meeting Elijah in Naboth’s Vineyard Giclee. Print by Sir Frank Dicksee. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

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Ain’t That Just Like A Man! Saath Nibhaana Saathiya

Imagination (Gladys Knight & the Pips album)

Imagination (Gladys Knight & the Pips album) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

GLADYS KNIGHT & THE PIPS

“Neither One Of Us”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_Lh4MFiw08

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sp5f8dEnmHY

I am still in shock that Ahem (Mohammad Nazim) had decided to part ways with the Modi family when Gopi (Devoleena Bhattacharjee) was forced to be away for ten years, serving time for killing her evil sister Radha (Bhavini Purohit.)

Now that she’s back home, Ahem is still an angry heart broken man, holding grudges against her and the rest of family for what he perceived as her personally leaving him and his daughters all alone and on purpose.

He has to be in denial because he should know better. Looking at what the circumstances have been, he should know Gopi couldn’t just ignore the problems going on in the household nor could she walk around with tunnel vision, caring only for him and their daughters alone while Radha was putting up a fuss, causing havoc in the family and what not.

മലയാളം: Rose

മലയാളം: Rose (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

So with Gopi being the eldest daughter in law she had to step up to the plate and try to deal with the issues going on. Everybody knew how crazy Radha tried to kill Gopi and baby Rashi and would have been successful if it wasn’t for the intervention of the Goddess possession. But baby Rashi is a big little girl now and is adorably pudgy and cute. The Modi family has survived but have not thrived because it’s so obvious that everyone is suffering from a broken heart since Gopi left.

One thing I still cannot believe is how Ahem went up against his mother Kokila (Rupal Patel) because this is a first. He was always walking in his mothers shadow, doing as he was told. Kokila ruled back in the day but lately is looking real bad and worn down from suffering with her broken heart. She lost her son, her daughter in law and her grands all at once. I am surprised that she wasn’t the one who lost her mind but instead it’s Urmilla (Vandana Vithlani) whose elevator is not going all the way up and I am trying to figure out how this happened to her, how in the world did Urmilla loose it. But she is playing her role to the hilt. Urmilla is a riot! She has me crackin up all throughout the show at the things she has been doing since the time leap. It was so funny when she showed up at the police station when Rashi’s boys was arrested for hacking into Ahem’s bank account to get information on where he resided. I tell you the way she was waving that gun was so so funny and how everyone was dodging from getting hit with a possible bullet. LOL!

Français : 2 roses

Français : 2 roses (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Well for now Gopi wants her rights and it’s obvious she is getting her strength from her strong willed mother in law. Kokila talked to Gopi making her realize the truth and the gravity of her situation. So Gopi walked up in Ahem’s house and argued him down powerfully for her rights as she realizes that she is the biological mother of her daughters and that Ahem is still her husband. I had to give it to her, she did not hold back any punches. I am loving it when she stands up for her rights because I know she felt bad when she showed up to the Holi party and saw Ahem with this so called other woman in his life. Then she realized that those ill mannered girls were her daughters, what a shock. It’s a good thing Jigar (Vishal Singh) was there to support her too.

It is my hope that Gopi won’t stand back and allow this woman to take what is hers so easily. It’s a shame because Ahem is not trying to hear what she has to say. As a matter of fact when she showed up at his home to discuss this, his favorite words were…… Get out! Leave! Go away! Now ain’t that just like a man! He just never wants to deal with his emotions about anything.

He knows deep down inside he still loves Gopi because she surprised him while standing at his doorstep. It left him speechless for a moment, then all those old memories of their sweet loving moments came flooding back into his mind and body whether he wanted them to or not. It was so much so that he smiled, he reached out, he wanted to touch her and I am sure he wanted to hug and hold her so tightly but he resisted his first feelings.

I sure hope that they will get through this trying time because it seems like every so often they have to go through a rough period and then later they find each other again.

Hopefully one day they will look back on the current events, fall back deeply in love one more time and let all of this become another thing of the past.

In the meantime I’ll continue to snuggle up in bed and watch all of the excitement and drama and love every minute of it because this show is hot!

Star Plus

Star Plus (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

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Love Reciprocates! Oh Yes It Does

All compromise is based on give and take, but there can be no give and take on fundamentals. Any compromise on mere fundamentals is a surrender.                             For it is all give and no take.

~Mahatma Gandhi~

There are various types of relationships in the world, but one rule stands firm. In all relationships there should always be a give and take.

Love Reciprocates!

For instance, someone passes you by on the street, they say good morning, hello, hi, namaste, whatever!

Well a normal well mannered, intelligent person would feel compelled to return the greeting, right. And if they don’t reciprocate the gesture, but choose to ignore someone who is speaking to them, well that would seem a tad bit odd. It might even be seen as rude and uncalled for.  And you have people with college degrees, so called intelligent folks acting so rude.

Inaction like this is very noticeable, uncomfortable and sets the stage for misunderstanding. It’s not the norm and reeks as unbalanced, crude and antisocial.

Behaviors such as stubbornness, inflexibility, arrogance or allowing there to be a one sidedness, or having the attitude of a one-up-manship in a relationship, pretending to be better than another person- these behaviors are destructive and do not bring success or happiness to any relationship.

Give and take requires the practice of compromise, accommodation and flexibility on both sides. It requires an active and energetic exchange of ideas and conversation with shared benefits. There should always be a mutual respect and cooperation in a relationship. Anything less is not going to work, it will be a problem always rising and the relationship will never be successful at all.

I tell you in most human societies we are obliged to give back and not be takers only.

Humans communicate on so many other levels than just with mere words. We send out vibes. Anyone can pick up a vibe of jealousy, hate or dislike. Just as we can pick up when someone genuinely likes us. So don’t be fake, it shows.

If someone shows forth love, kindness, forgiveness and acknowledgment towards you, then reciprocate by showing that same love, kindness, forgiveness and acknowledgment back to them. Don’t let them out shine you. Don’t let the lower negative energy of the world over power your behavior towards someone else, cause you know deep down inside you are not doing right, nor are you being fair. And you claim to be a Christian, shame on you! LOL! Because believe it or not you get back what you send out. What goes around, comes around. You reap what you sow.

It’s true that good guys finish last. I am a firm believer in that.

Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.

Proverbs 16:18

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An article on GIVE AND TAKE, I enjoyed reading, it’s so cute.

http://elitedaily.com/dating/get-give-youll-never-get-gent-without-playing-lady/761668/

Give And Take: Why you can’t land Prince Charming without putting in some work

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