The Last Few Things We Do Before It’s Lights Out: Bed Time Routines

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My husband and I work together to try to make the house a nice and pleasant place to be in the mornings. So we have a few things we like to do just before bedtime and most of it only takes us about five minutes to do each one of them. (Except for the number 13.) And so you would be surprised at how taking the time to do those little things before bedtime can mean so much when you start your day.

1. Walk thru the house to check for tidiness.

(This we do so the house is super neat in the mornings and so we put things back in their places, like for instance we might put a book back on the book shelf and a magazine back in the magazine rack, then gather up any cups or snack trays into the sink to be washed.)

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2. Oil the kitchen sink with lavender scented baby oil and put a pretty porcelain vase full of flowers in the sink and in the fridge and set up the table for breakfast or brunch the next day.

(This is something I like to get done religiously because I absolutely do love stepping into clean a pretty, neat and clean kitchen in the mornings. So there is no dishes left overnight in the sink for us. I like to use the lavender scented baby oil to make the sink smell good and for it to have a pretty shine along with setting pretty things in it just for overnight. Also I like it when there is fresh towels laid out on the sink so I make sure that all dish towels and dish cloths used that day is put in the washing machine to get washed first thing the next day along with our bath towels and wash cloths and so I like to set out fresh clean dish towels and dish cloths every night. One day I plan to stitch the days of the week on each dish towel. And the idea of putting fake or fresh flowers in a vase in the middle of the sink and a vase in the fridge is amazing. It makes the kitchen so cheerful and it smells super nice as it’s so pleasant to the eyes first thing in the morning. The sight of flowers in those two places brings a pleasant smile to our faces and helps set the mood for the beginning of the day. So before getting our hot tea, orange juice or coffee, eggs, hot or cold cereal or bagels it helps us love our morning environment.)

3. Set out any frozen meats or frozen precooked meals for dinner in a pan on top of the deep freezer to defrost overnight. (Thawing out the raw meats or precooked meals makes it much easier for us to get dinner started early as possible so we are not eating anything so late at night.)

4. Vacuum the bedrooms and bathrooms with the cordless vac, wipe down mirrors, sink and toilet seat with Clorox wipes and mirror spray.

(It’s important for us that we start our next day in a clean fresh smelling bathroom. I like it to be fresh smelling and orderly for us for when we use the bathroom in the middle of the night and for in the mornings before getting into the shower. It eliminates having so much to do in the mornings. Also I am so sensitive when it comes to any bad odors at night and so it’s important the bathroom is fresh smelling for me when I get up at night and for in the mornings when we rise. And so I like to put the wash cloths and towels into the washing machine as well and set out fresh towels and wash cloths for the next day.)

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~Meditation Music for Deep Sleep, Relaxing, Stress ( 1hour )~

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5. Turn on all the salt lamps in each room throughout the house.

(Those salt lamps are so amazing, relaxing and calming to the mind, heart and spirit. They help us wind down and get sleepy.)

6. Empty all garbage cans to go to the outdoors garbage bin. (I prefer that all garbage is out of the house right after dinner. I find even those scented garbage bags do not hold down trash can odors. Then we check on the scented plug ins and turn the dials down to the lowest levels at night. We have the lavender scents in the bedrooms and the citrus or febreze scents in the rest of the rooms of the house.)

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7. Bring a bottle of Evian Spring Water to my bedside and pull down the bed sheets and close the curtains (We seem to get thirsty at night and no one wants to go into the kitchen for water and also pulling down the sheets signals it time to wind down.)

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8. Drink one cup of Oolong tea with some lemon juice and a teaspoon of apple cider vinegar. I been trying to have this Weight loss tea called “Oolong Wulong Slimming Tea” as I heard somewhere that this tea helps with weight loss a great deal and there are rumors that it can help you lose anywhere up to 5 to 10 pounds a month by just drinking it. So I figured why not give it a go. I add in bit of apple cider vinegar, lemon juice and a teaspoon of blue agave. I tell you I can use all the help I can get these days. LOL! I will be sure to post about it if it works for me or not.

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9. Use dental floss, brush my teeth (for at least 2 minutes) then use my water pik.

(I think as we get older we really need to take good care of our teeth and so double flossing and brushing really does help. I have created a herbal rinse to go into the water tray in the water pik to rinse clean our teeth and you’d be surprised what the water pik washes away between the teeth and massages the gums so well. I also like that we use an anti plaque pre-rinse at least every other day as well. All of this I think is so important for our teeth to reduce cavities from forming in the first place so that dental costs are reduced drastically.)

10. Lightly oil and brush my hair with 100 stokes. (Every Sunday like clock work I like to deep condition my hair with various types of conditioners, like “Garnier Whole Blends Honey Treasures Repairing Mask” or “Amika Nourishing Mask” that I leave in my hair all day sometimes and then I’ll put on my electric heat cap that I keep on for at least one hour and then I use a special anti hair thinning shampoo to wash out the conditioner. I know most people wash their hair first then condition but I do the reverse because I leave the conditioner in and I use a spray bottle filled with “Evian Spring Water” and massage in the conditioner to leave in all day and plus it seems to work better for my hair when I do it this way as I think my hair loves it this way. I also love applying all types of sweet smelling oils like argan oil, nettle oil, rosemary oil and other herbal sweet scented oils on my scalp and hair to help it smell nice longer, grow, feel soft and stay clean. So this night time routine of using my hair brush helps with bringing circulation to the scalp and keeps my hair in the best of shape.)

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11. Wash my face, then put on shay butter with a few drops of marula oil every night and also add rose hips oil 3 times a week at night. (I keep it simple when it comes to my face and neck. I use simple products so my skin looks lovely whether I wear make up or not.)

12. Oil and massage my clean feet, legs and ankles. (My feet swell up so easy and so I like to take care of them with a gentle massage at night before bed and so I’ll watch a few YouTube videos I enjoy as I do this.)

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“3 Hours Best Relaxing Music 2017: Burning Candles & Piano Music”

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13. Listen to the audible bible for one hour or so. Then turn on my meditation things like candle burning or fire place videos with relaxing sounds like running water, soft music or the sound of a crackling fire place, etc.

So I tell you that doing these types of things really do aid in us getting a sound sleep because a lot of the time for me my pain level keeps me up at night more often then I’d like to be and so I like to try practically everything under the sun to help keep my mind, body and spirit calm and relaxed in the evenings.

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“virtual fire place with crackling sounds”

 

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The Games People Play…. I’ve No Time For Little Girl’s Games

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Oh the games people play now, every night and day now

never meaning what they say now, never saying what they mean…

People walking up to you, singing glory hallelujah

and they’re tryin to sock it to you in the name of the Lord….

Look around tell me what you see, what’s happening to you and me

God grant me the serenity to remember who I am…

~Joe South~

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I’ve No Time For Little Girl’s Games”

I don’t apologize for who I am

because I don’t have to

I was raised by a woman with integrity

And so guess what, when you see me, you see her

An example of who she was and every part of her being

I turned out to be that same strong godly woman of integrity

and proud to be…

I am about doing the right thing even when it’s no longer in style

I’m fierce, that’s me always looking to better myself and my world around

So when it comes to handling my business I only have time for positivity

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I tell you that at this stage of my life, I’ve no time for little girl’s games

Because I am a grown a** woman

You can’t light a candle next to my inner glow

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Some women need to grow up, Seriously!

Need to stop being hypocritical in

behavior and speech

Either mean what they say

or say what they mean

Do you even know what it means

to be trustworthy?

I am generous, humble, kind and genuine

Intuitive and have a preference in strengthening relationships

I go the extra mile

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I tell you that at this stage of my life, I’ve no time for little girl’s games

Because I am a grown a** woman

 You can’t light a candle next to my inner glow

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I’m honest and straight forward

I don’t pretend to be one way

then later show up acting another way

even if and when I don’t get my way

What ever happened to common courtesy

and lady like behavior and tendencies

I tell you rudeness and jealousy doesn’t look cute,

it’s for ignorant fools

Either I let you know what is what

I’m straight up

I respond with out fear

I always have time

for another human being

as I value other peoples time

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I tell you that at this stage of my life, I’ve no time for little girl’s games

Because I am a grown a** woman

 You can’t light a candle next to my inner glow

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And yes, I get it. About being your cup of tea,

well sometimes I don’t expect to be

In that case…

I bow out gracefully

Because when it comes to me…

what you see is what you get

You either love me for the light that glows in me

or hate me because

you are knee deep in some wickedness yourself

So when you come to me

it’s best you come correct

or don’t bother to come at all

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I tell you that at this stage of my life, I’ve no time for little girl’s games

Because I am a grown a** woman

Yes.. a grown woman, is who I am

You can’t light a candle next to my inner glow

So don’t you play your treacherous little games with me 

~me~

~I hope you enjoyed reading my poem posted today. Kindly come back again to see me.~

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If someone asks for reassurance and gets it, that is an operation. If someone asks for reassurance and after its given turns it in some way to the disadvantage of the giver, that’s a game. ~Eric Berne, M.D.~ Games People Play

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~Joe South~

“Games People Play”

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~Jimmy Castor Bunch~

“Troglodyte (Cave Man)”

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Too kind, too trusting and too forgiving? No, these are really beautiful personality traits 🙏❤️ — joypassiondesire

Yesterday something happened that made me stop and think. I did something really kind for someone else, I helped a person who was in need and he became so grateful and happy. But afterwards it dawned on me – I did not think about my own security when I helped him. What had happened if […]

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Have Good Thoughts… Or Else It’s Ground Hogs Day Everyday

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Be a light!

A beautiful & bright shining light.

Be positive!

A beautiful positive being.

Be that at all times!

It will help you start to see the best in your sisters and brothers.

Even the worst person has some good in them.

Even the best person has some bad in them.

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So you represent….

Represent kindness, compassion, patience and courtesy.

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Life feels like were digging ourselves thru hell sometimes huh,

but who has time for that kind of thinking everyday.

The truth is that everybody is going to be tested.

Just don’t choose to be a victim all the time.

We are always going to experience a broken heart and sadness,

but how about if you rearrange your mind.

Change your thoughts.

Make each thought count.

Just be loving…

loving to yourself first and foremost

and you will feel free.

Some say to themselves well a lot of people are going to trample all over me if I am a loving person.

Well good then…

let them….

but just be loving anyway.

And let the Most High in heaven above straighten out those crooked beings.

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Don’t go looking for things in your past that will make you fall apart in anguish over and over again.

Have good thoughts about people and your life

or else life turns into ground hog day everyday.

Life is just as easy, just like it can be hard.

It’s what you allow to grow in your mind.

Learn to let it all go.

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Negativity has no power on its own.

It gets it power from you giving it to it.

Life is not always what we think it is.

Throw garbage out of your life.

When you see garbage in your yard, in your house, anywhere… what are you going to do?

Throw it away right.

The world is full of “looney tunes”  & nut cases.

It’s either someone running people down with a vehicle one minute then

someone shooting up a store, church or school the next.

Sexual assault, misunderstandings, world leaders fighting for control or power,

being given the cold shoulder

although you’ve done nothing wrong,

unjust persecutions, a victim to gossip, relationship cutoffs or whatever.

When someone does something cruel, hateful or mean or when you are present to or witness some kind of cruelty being done to another

then 

they act as if they did nothing wrong.

All parties will need to let all of that out.

Not keep that mess, holding it inside.

Because it seems if you look hard enough or slightly you will witness

how love steps up and comes to the rescue

especially when it’s needed the most.

Because it almost always does come to deliver you, some how, some way.

Yes love always does come to the rescue.

And just in the nick of time.

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Be present in the moment & love truth.

It’s true… you do call the shots in your life.

Never allow anyone to steal 

your joy, love and peace of mind.

That’s why I love meditation. It calms, gives peace.

Let all the crap go.

It really doesn’t matter.

When love resides within.

~~me~~

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I hope you enjoyed my writings today

Thank you so much for stopping by my blog.

Feel free to come again and again.

Love and Peace to you!

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Let’s Go Away & Bring Back The Lost Sweetness Of Our Relationship: Balika Vadu

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[Basant] You’re angry?

[Gehna] No, but even if I was, would it make a difference.

[Basant] Ask your heart…. I’ll tell you if it makes a difference to me or not. That…. I….

whatever happened last night…. forgive me.

[Gehna] Apologize to yourself. You’re punishing yourself so severely for no reason. I never complained to you. So why? Along with yours… you’ve lost trust in my love too.

[Basant] I’ll always trust you and your love as long as I live, Gehna. But I don’t know…. I get obsessed. Today… there is nothing more important to me than you. Yet I don’t know why I hurt you.  I don’t understand myself, Gehna.

[Gehna] Please sit. Come on. Don’t think too much. You too are human. You return after working hard all day. One gets testy because of tiredness.

[Basant] Nay, if understandable, if I vent my anger on you for your faults. But here it’s not your fault. But I keep looking for an excuse to fight you. Maybe I blame you to hide my weakness. Why do I stoop so low?

[Gehna] The more you think the more you feel pain. I trust my love as much as… I trust your love. We too can’t hurt each other. It means…. there are some minor misunderstandings. We can solve those by… discussing and spending time with each other. We should get out of this environment. If the place changes, circumstances change too. For some days…. we should go away from here.

(he turns to her and says)

[Basant] Sight seeing in this age?

[Gehna] It’s not sight seeing… well go bring the lost sweetness of our relationship. Maybe at this time, this is the need of this relationship. And we should fulfill it.

[Basant] Fine. We’ll go.

(she looks at him surprised that he agreed to go away

to spend some loving time alone with each other)

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~Balika Vadu Cast~

~Satyajit Sharma~ as Basant Dharamveer Singh/Basant Mahaveer Singh

~Neha Marda~ as Gehna Basant/Gehna Niranjan

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Low Carb Buttermilk Waffles Made With Almond Flour

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It seems I get craving for waffles ever since I started on this low carb diet. So I saw one of my favorite YouTube cooking channel video’s of a woman making these low carb waffles with almond flour and I thought why not give it a shot. So I had to break out the warring pro waffle maker and went to work making them for brunch. And oh boy were they light and delicious and they did hit the spot.

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Low Carb Buttermilk Waffles Made With Almond Flour Recipe

Ingredients:

for waffles mix

1 cup of almond flour

2 tablespoons of baking powder

1 tablespoon of buttermilk powder and ½ cup of water or ½ cup of actual buttermilk

(the buttermilk is optional)

1 teaspoon of almond or vanilla extract

1 pinch of salt

2 eggs (beaten)

1 tablespoon of agave power

and other Ingredients:

1 tablespoon of butter (optional)

½ cup of walnuts

½ cup of whipped cream (optional)

agave syrup

Pam cooking spray

plus

waffle iron

mixing bowl

Directions: 

1. Get waffle iron hot.

2. Beat eggs and then add all the ingredients for the waffle mix and blend it all together.

3. Spray iron with cooking spray then pour in half the mixture onto iron to cook for about 1 to 2 minutes till done.

4. Serve waffles with a little butter, a sprinkle of walnuts, agave syrup and a tablespoon of whipped cream on top. And your GOOD! (Smile)

This recipe makes two large waffles.

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Is Your Wife A Nag Or Are You A Genius! Gold The Movie

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What… What are you doing? What’s wrong with you. You eat so much fish but still no brains. [Monobina]

What should I do, then? [Tapan]

Take your shoes off first! Otherwise you’ll keep slipping. [Monobina]

(Tapan then took off his shoes and the suggestion Monobina his wife makes to him works like a charm and so he was able to push the wheel out of the ditch, and he happily responds)

My wife is a beauty with brains! [Tapan]

(She replies to his admiration of her advice)

Now hurry up. [Monobina]

(Tapan climbs back onto the wagon and sits back beside Monobina his wife as she brushes the mud off his head with love. Later they arrive at their destination and he and his wife are so in love as they cannot resist each other and so they make passionate love.)

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In the dialogue above Tapan and his wife Monobina are riding in a wagon and the other wagon following behind is carrying their belongings but one of the wheel’s gets stuck in a ditch so Tapan jumps off his wagon and immediately try’s pushing the wheel out of the ditch but his feet are slipping and he is failing miserably to get the wheel out of the ditch.

The movie Gold with Akshay Kumar is a historical sports drama movie based on an Indian national hockey team in the 1940’s.

What I liked the most about this movie is watching the dynamics of the marriage relationship between Tapan and his wife Monobina. I observed that his wife was very bright and he did a lot of things very stupidly. I liked that although she felt she always had to fuss with him quite often due to the fact that he handled his life very poorly and did not use his brain, there was not a time when he became so angry and frustrated with her for pointing things out to him. It seemed he had the right attitude as he knew she had his best interest at heart and so he never let insecurity rule him and spoil their relationship. It seemed nor did he allow anger to control his thoughts to the point that he directed anger at his wife. Deep down inside he loved her and he knew she loved him. I liked that he was very secure in himself that he never let himself be or feel insecure when it came to the things his wife had to say to him a lot of the times throughout their relationship. It was so refreshing to see this relationship.

There are too many marriage relationships that suffer unnecessarily due to this same very issue. A lot of the time the husband acts like a bird brain and the wife is smarter when it comes to certain things and so instead of the husband being appreciative instead he winds up harboring secret or obvious jealousy and hatred for his smart wife instead of appreciating her as he should. Just the fact that he has her there in his life to help him with his short comings is something a lot of men fail to realize and so this is how a lot of marriages happiness is tossed out the window and ruined because the husband has a bad male ego, low self esteem and a bad attitude. A man with these attributes would rather say his wife has a big mouth and call her a nag and what not rather then appreciate her big mouth, big behind, smart brain and all. So I very much liked this scene so much when they were traveling as one of the wagon’s holding their belongings got stuck in a ditch in the mud and his wife assists him with getting it out of the mud filled ditch so they could proceed forward.

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In the movie you can see how Tapan responded by saying…. My wife is a beauty with brains!

Amazing response. And he got her love and passion because of it. He hardly ever responded in a negative way to his wife’s suggestions/nagging. It’s all in how you interpret and perceive things and in what light you choose to see a person as important as your life partner. He never said stupid things like “shut up!” nor did he respond by saying “I’m the man in the relationship and so you do not need to tell me what to do, how to think or to breathe.” Only idiots of the worse kind respond in that way. I tell you I think this is a movie that would benefit “ALL MALES” of all ages around the world. And they need to not just watch this movie but take serious notes!!! And internalize it.

In this movie Tapan shows how a man should and could behave in his dealings with his wife who may seem like a nag to him. Nine times out of ten when a man says his wife is a nag he is a bird brain to the tenth degree! LOL! Come on men handle yourselves appropriately by keeping a check on the ego, emotions, thought process and attitude. Just think about it… Do you want to always be right or do you want the right kind of loving relationship with your spouse? Think about it! Your situation may not be about getting a wheel out of the mud but whatever it is think about how you are reacting and responding to the person you claim to love.

This is an amazing example of a movie. Amazing!

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~Gold Cast~

~Monobina Das~ (Tapan’s wife) Mouni Roy

~Tapan Das~ Askshay Kumar

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The Beginning Stages of Love: Balika Vadu

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i’m gonna do all the things for you a girl wants a man to do, oh baby

(oh, baby)

i’ll sacrifice for you, i’ll even do wrong for you, oh baby

(oh, baby)

~Diana Ross & The Supremes & The Temptations~

I’m Gonna Make You Love Me”

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It’s seems their love is new and when love is new between couples everything is right in the world or so they say.  Jagya and Anandi are so in love and to witness their relationship happening these days is so adorable.

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And every night, every day

i’m gonna say…

i’m gonna get you,

i’m gonna get you. Look out, ‘cause i’m gonna get you.

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Well I tell you everyone can see how Jagya is being so impatient and looks like he just can’t wait to spend some time alone with his wife Anandi. He thinks about her day and night, and night and day…. and so he is always looking for opportunites to sneak away with her and well it just seems all so very sweet. Every day he’s doing something to set them up to be together alone. I loved the scene that time when they were in the fields alone or so they thought because someone spotted them together and told Jagya’s grandma and the woman raised a lot of hell because it was unbecoming of a young girl to be seen in public so close beside her husband. Actually it is tradition that all girls, women, wives are supposed to be seen walking ten feet behind their husbands whenever they are in public.

Anyway, it seems they have yet to consummate their marriage and Anandi is so innocent in her thought process that it seems so foreign to Jagya. He can’t seem to get it, he wonders why is it that all she cares about is being an amazing daughter in law to her in laws. She waits on Jagdish’s granny night and day. At night she massages granny’s legs till she falls asleep and first thing in the morning she makes granny some tea and breakfast when she rises. Anandi is always so busy cooking meals for each member of the family and cleaning house. And so you’d think she’d be more interested in what Jagya wants even just a tiny bit. I think the lack of interest is because of her innocence. She hasn’t got a clue as to what its like to be with her husband in a special way and so she therefore does not know what it is she’s missing.

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and with each beat of my heart

for every day we are apart

i’ll hunger for you….

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So as the story line proceeds on, I am waiting on the day when she gets to find out how amazing it can be when you are loved by your husband in more ways then one, if you know what I mean. I am waiting on the next phase of their marriage. But in the meantime it’s so humorous to watch Jagya in action as he keeps on plotting and keeps on trying to get closer and closer to his wife, actually I think it’s so, so cute and adorable. LOL! It reminds me so much of my own relationship with my husband when we first were married.

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Every minute, every hour,

I’m gonna shower you with love and affection.

Look out, it’s comin’ in your direction.

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~Balika Vadu Cast~

~Anandi Khahaan Singh~Pratyusha Banerjee

~Dr. Jagdish Bhairon Singh/Jagya/Jagat~Shashank Vyas

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Diana Ross & The Supremes & The Temptations

I’m Gonna Make You Love Me

Lyrics

whew oooh ooh ohh

i’m gonna do all the things for you a girl wants a man to do, oh baby

(oh, baby)

i’ll sacrifice for you, i’ll even do wrong for you, oh baby

(oh, baby)

Every minute, every hour, I’m gonna shower you with love and affection. Look out, it’s comin’ in your direction.

And I’m, I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will, yes I will.

And I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will, yes I will.

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Looky here. My love is strong you see I know you’ll never get tired of me. Oh, baby (oh, baby)…

And i’m gonna use every trick in the book, i’ll try my best to get you hooked. Hey, baby (hey, baby)…

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And every night, every day

i’m gonna say… i’m gonna get you,

i’m gonna get you. Look out, ‘cause i’m gonna get you.

I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will, yes I will.

And I’m gonna make you love me. Oh, yes I will. You know I will.

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Every breath I take

and each and every step I make

brings me closer baby, brings me closer to you

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and with each beat of my heart

for every day we are apart

i’ll hunger for every wish

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oooh every night and every day

I gonna get you, i’m gonna get you, I’m gonna get you

look out, cause i’m gonna get you

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i’m gonna make,

i’m gonna make you love me

ooooh, oooh

yes I will, yes I will

i’m gonna make,

i’m gonna make you love me

ooooh, oooh

yes I will, yes I will

i’m gonna make,

i’m gonna make you love me

ooooh, oooh

yes I will, yes I will

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Mind Games…~How To Help Your Man Stay If He Really Want’s To~

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~Tyrone Davis~

Can I Change My Mind”

Well at some point the man even admitted that he tried playing this game of leaving her many times before. So when it didn’t work this time he wound up being the one crying instead of her. She didn’t beg him to stay at any point anymore. LOL! Ooh I have fallen in love with this love story as it’s being sung and the music is so amazing as it makes you want to just sing along and sway your hips from side to side, lovin every word.

I especially love this song “Can I Change My Mind” and the reason I do is because it seems extra sweet because it has in it a lesson well taught that some women can learn from.

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Well anyway, I tell you I just love me some Tyrone Davis Music. So when I heard this song for the very first time I really didn’t get it nor did I break it apart to try to understand what is going on. I was just singing it just because of the melody and I liked the voice of the singer. But when I really listened to the lyrics, the words started to stand out and they were powerful!

I tell you I like how this woman dealt with her man once and for all. I guess she was tired of his threats to leave her. The part I love best is the first few lyrics.

awww…. she didn’t bat an eye

as I packed my bags to leave

I thought she would start to cry

I sit around my room and weep

I guess that’s why I always loved listening to country western music because of the dramatic love stories that are being sung. But I have to say this… Tyrone Davis might have out done some of those old country western songs with this one. LOL! And so here he sings…

but people’s let me tell y’all

oh I never reached the door

She got him where she wanted him. He wishes he never attempted to leave home. I think if and when he gets her back he won’t play that silly game any more. So yeah I say it was CHECKMATE!

as I took those steps, towards that open door

knowing all the time, oh lord I just didn’t wanna go

but she didn’t give me no sign

nothing that would make me change my mind

I would like to, start all over again

and then he sings….

but ooh the wind is high out tonight

I keep looking back but my baby’s not in sight

I would like to, start all over again

So tell me anybody ever threaten to leave you? And how did you deal with it?

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~Tyrone Davis~

Can I Change My Mind”

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~Tyrone Davis~

Can I Change My Mind”

Lyrics…..

awww…. she didn’t bat an eye

as I packed my bags to leave

I thought she would start to cry

I sit around my room and weep

but y’all the girl she fooled me this time

she acted like I was the last thing on her mind

I would like to start all over again

baby can I change my mind

I just wanna change my mind

baby let me change my mind

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as I took those steps, towards that open door

knowing all the time, oh lord I just didn’t wanna go

but she didn’t give me no sign

nothing that would make me change my mind

I would like to, start all over again

baby can I change my mind

please please please baby

I just wanna change my mind

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oh I played my games many times before

but people’s let me tell y’all

oh I never reached the door

but ooh the wind is high out tonight

I keep looking back but my baby’s not in sight

I would like to, start all over again

baby can I change my mind

baby let me change my mind

I’m so sorry

baby I love you

baby I need you

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Becoming One: Balika Vadu

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The feeling of being one….

makes a boy a man

&

a girl a woman

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~Balika Vadu~

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~Cast~

~Anandi Khahaan Singh~Pratyusha Banerjee

~Dr. Jagdish Bhairon Singh/Jagya/Jagat~Shashank Vyas

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