I’m Just A Fella With A One Track Mind: Kehne Ko Humsafar Hain Season 1

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I ain’t got time to sit down and wonder what makes a birdy fly…

but when it comes to thinking bout anything but my baby

I just don’t have the time…

I’m just a fella who has a one-track mind.

And when it comes to thinkin bout anything but my baby

I just don’t have the time.

~Marvin Gaye~

Too Busy Thinkin Bout My Baby”

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Poonam (Gurdeep Kolhi) found out she was perimenopausal and so broke up with her young new boyfriend Abhimanyu (Sayush Nayyar) and was distraught.

So on that day Rohit (Ronit Roy) felt he had to get over to see Poonam, as she was not answering his texts or his phone calls as he planned to get her signature on the documents in order to proceed with the sell of their second home, the farmhouse. They discussed it and she gave him the OK to sell it, they’d purchased it early on in their marriage for cheap and so, the farmhouse is where she and her daughters moved after their divorce and so he and Ananya (Mona Singh) moved into the main house. But because he’d been having some financial problems due to a bad deal and was about to lose the company, at Poonam’s suggestion and approval he was to sell the farmhouse. The girls were getting older and moving on so she along with his mother was planning to move into a small apartment. But he kept this all a secret from Ananya because she had been planning a trip to Paris for both of them and his ego would not allow him to share with her that he was now about broke.

And so she sought comfort in Rohit as he had shown up unannounced with the paperwork. Upon seeing her state Rohit felt guilty and so blamed himself for her being in this state so he was drawn in. He felt obligated to comfort her and blamed himself for ever leaving and divorcing her. One act and one excuse later led to them finding themselves lying in bed together but they somehow were able to stop themselves before things went too far.

Well I say this man always loved Poonam all along but because Ananya stepped between them he developed a taste for her and so had to have her. So I think it was on a subconscious level that Poonam wanted to get some getback/payback for the pain they caused her. She and Rohit were married for a very long time and she knew him better than he knew himself and had time to observe and know him much longer then Ananya ever could.

Exactly what kind of spell this “other woman” had over him I could not readily define it nor could I pin it down to an exact relationship science, but for him she alone is what’s been on his mind both day and night. Ever since they’d met all she wanted to do was have him to and for herself and after a while he didn’t want to have nothing to do with Poonam his wife anymore. As a matter of fact he became totally blind to Poonam wants, needs and feelings and so he tossed her away like an old pair of beat-up shoes. She wouldn’t agree to grant him the divorce unless that “other woman” showed up along with him in divorce court. I couldn’t get this coldness he’d let grow towards such a loving wife like her. She was just as beautiful, she dressed lovely and had an amazing fashion sense, she was the soft, caring and a gentle type whose only desire was towards meeting his needs and the needs of her family. But since he met and started sleeping around with Ananya, it seemed useless to keep up hope while Ananya served him a hefty dose of passion that kept bringing him back for more and eventually they destroyed his family life. I say the problem was with Rohit all the time, I believe his type can never be fully satisfied because he believed the grass was greener where Ananya was rather than being with Poonam and he had it so good with Poonam and their daughters all the time.

The truth is that Rohit had been feeling very insecure lately regarding Ananya’s relationship with her good looking, rich, famous, and admiring boss Harry Somani (Apurva Agnihotri) and so he started bending the ear of his best friend and seeking advice from him. And so when he was having financial difficulties it was his ex-wife Poonam he went to as he felt the ease and comfort of being able to talk freely with Poonam about what was on his mind. Ananya never liked this bond between them and so shortly after they were married she became furious enough that she left him using her career as a means of getting away from him a few months, causing Rohit to chase in behind her to bring her back home as he had a hint she was a runner from the very beginning of their relationship but nevertheless he still had to have her in his life anyway.

Ananya slept with Rohit so many times as a matter a fact it was many years where she and Rohit slept around with each other while he was still married to Poonam. But this is when I can tell you that karma is a true bitch! Because somehow what you do wrong no matter how right it may seem to do at the time it always comes creeping back with a vengeance. The way Ananya seemed to be thoughtless and careless about how broken-hearted and crushed Poonam was in the middle of this threesome. All she could think about was that she wanted to fulfill her heart’s desires too. Yeah Rohit and Poonam had issues that’s how the door was open that let Ananya come in. Rohit was adamant as he claims since theirs was an arranged marriage there was no love between him and Poonam and so that was his excuse for why he slept with Ananya in the first place. But where was he now? How did he get so drawn back to Poonam’s arms? Was this by accident only? I say not really as his love for Poonam was lying dormant the entire time, he just didn’t know it.

And so it was Rohit’s complaint that his whole life was a lie and about how he made choices out of obligation right down to his choice of a career path he never wanted as it was that of his parent’s desire for him to do. So he claimed to be an unhappy soul and now he wanted to move on in life. He wanted to live a little by being with a woman of his choice. But even after he got Ananya and they married they started having different kinds of issues but issues nevertheless. Rohit found he was concerned and worried about Ananya’s relationship with her boss Harry Somani (Apurva Agnihotri) who was lusting after, pursued and wanted her for himself and on the other hand Ananya was always worried about Rohit’s constant involvement and interaction with his ex-wife and his daughter’s and so wanted to have a child with him to fill this void she was feeling. Never did she think that Rohit’s baggage was to become attached to their relationship forever.

Ananya’s spirit was that of some men. Many know and have experienced that some men have the capability to walk out on a relationship with no qualms about doing so when things don’t go their way, especially because their egos have been offended by something or another in the relationship. Some men can walk away without skipping a step nor missing a beat and I mean their disappearance act can last a lifetime as they never return. That to me shows a person with a certain kind of inner coldness within that is rarely seen in women but is there in a tiny segment of women. And women like Ananya are part of that segment.

Well, this show Kehne Ko Humsafar Hain Season 1 last episode was shown this week and it ended with Ananya walking out on Rohit perhaps for good as they had been trying to get her pregnant for the longest of time and so she may actually be pregnant this time after so many failures but it didn’t seem to matter that much to her anymore because she was more determined to leave the relationship rather than to stay. I tell you this woman’s ego became so offended once it became known to her that her new husband was sneaking around meeting up with his ex-wife behind her back this time.

I tell you everyone knows there is nothing worse then a woman scorned. And so because of this one act between those two, the second marriage is now in trouble and possibly ended although they tried to keep it a secret and not let Ananya find out the truth one day during the new years party they had at the farmhouse Poonam began to run her mouth and told her sister Sheena (Suchitra Pillai) and all the while they both had no idea that Ananya was in Poonam’s bedroom bathroom testing to see if she was pregnant or not as she overheard Poonam telling her sister that she didn’t get those hickeys on her throat from her boyfriend. Ananya and her girlfriend saw those love hickeys on her throat the day before while in the store shopping and assumed they were from the boyfriend and not Rohit. But I know Ananya always had a feeling of doom for her marriage to Rohit and rightly so because when you have to steal what doesn’t belong to you in the first place then you risk a chance of getting hurt by it and getting back what you deserve.

Ananya and Rohit are the huge risk-takers willing to make dangerous moves. I tell you she doesn’t know how was lucky she was that Poonam was the classy type who wasn’t crazed enough to beat her down or kill her for sleeping with her man on the sly on a regular basis. But anytime a grown man sneaks around cheating and chases another female for sex and happiness while he has a perfectly loving wife who provides him with these same things at home he is nothing more than an overgrown lovesick teenage boy and not a man at all in my eyes. He’s a man who has never grown up and probably never will grow up, nor appreciates what he had in the first place. So for all the years, he cheated on Poonam with this woman he got what he deserved. Karma saw to it! Now his heart is as broken by Ananya walking out on him when she found out the truth.

I tell you I heard of people like Ananya, men, and women alike who can dish out the wrongness but when it comes back to haunt them, her types cannot handle it, not even the thought or a moment of suffering through the same kind of defeat.

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I ain’t got time to sit down and wonder what makes a birdy fly…

but when it comes to thinking bout anything but my baby

I just don’t have the time…

I’m just a fella who has a one-track mind.

And when it comes to thinkin bout anything but my baby

I just don’t have the time.

~~~

~Marvin Gaye~

Too Busy Thinkin Bout My Baby”

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~Kehne Ko Humsafar Hain (Season 1)~

Rohit Mehra (Poonan’s Ex-husband And Ananya’s New Husband) [Ronit Roy]

Ananya Mandira Sharma (Rohit’s Second wife) [Mona Singh]

Poonam Kapoor/Tulsi Rohit Mehra (Rohit’s First Wife) [Gurdeep Kolhi]

Abhimanyu(Poonams New Boyfriend) [Sayush Nayyar]

Sheena Masi (Poonam’s sister) [Suchitra Pillai]

Harry Somani (Ananya’s Boss and Admirer) [Apurva Agnihotri]

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~Marvin Gaye~

Too Busy Thinkin Bout My Baby”

Lyrics

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Uh-huh huh, oh yeah, oh listen to me people…

I ain’t got time to think about money

or what it can buy

and I ain’t got time to sit down and wonder

what make a birdy fly

and I don’t have the time

to think about what makes a flower grow

and I never gave it a second thought

of where the river flows

Too busy thinkin bout my baby (background)

Oh yeah and I ain’t got time for nothing else

oh yeah

I ain’t got time to discuss the weather

or how long it’s gonna last

and uh I ain’t got time

to do no studyin

once I get out of class

tellin you, I’m just a fella

I got a one-track mind

And when it comes to thinkin bout anything but my baby

I just don’t have the time

Too busy thinkin bout my baby (background)

oh yeah, and I ain’t got time for nothin else

don’t you know I’m too busy thinkin bout my baby

and I ain’t got time for nothin else

Oooh-Oooh, Oooh-Oooh (background)

Yeah, yeah Oooh

(music)

All the diamonds and pearls in the world

could never match her worth

Naw, she’s some kinda wonderful people tell ya

I’ve got heaven right here on earth

I’m just a fella

with a one, one-track mind

Oh yeah (Background)

And when it comes to thinkin bout anything but my baby

I just don’t have the time.

Too busy thinkin bout my baby (background)

Oh, and I ain’t got time for nothin else

you know it

Too busy thinkin bout my baby

and I ain’t got time for nothin else

Too busy thinkin about my baby

ain’t got time for nothin else, no more

(background)

Oh yeah

Too busy thinkin about my baby

ain’t got time for nothin else, no more

(background)

oh…

she’s never hard to find

cause she’s always on my mind

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