Some of the most caring and loving people can be ones who have gone thru a great deal in their lives. I believe that people are basically good. Whenever someone is trying to hurt me I know they are hurting themselves. I can send them loving vibrations to help them heal themselves at the same time saving myself from the harmful vibrations they are sending to me. We are all beautiful in God’s eyes and if we could only see God’s love for us that in itself can cause us to transform.